Is it normal that i despise my grandmother?

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Okay, so I'm a 21 year old man, I have Grand Mal seizure disorder, and my grandmother is an 87-year-old bitch who tries to control EVERY aspect of my damn life. She's always complaining about how I don't have a job yet, how I've 'blown every penny I've earned', which is total bullshit, she's just mad because I made it so she couldn't peek into my bank account whenever she wants, and is always nagging me to death about every little thing I don't do that she wants done that she never even tells me to do, and acts like it's MY fault that I don't get it done.

So recently, I lost my health coverage for some unexplained reason. I don't find this out until after I had a hospital visit a few weeks back, so I've been TRYING (key word there, TRYING) to get ahold of both my case worker over at social services, AND someone who's supposed to help me get on MedAssist, which will help me while I'm unemployed. I'm currently out of my medication, and my bitch of a grandmother acts like it's all MY fault, because she seems to think that just because I can't get ahold of my case worker when I try to, and she got lucky and got ahold of said case worker ONCE, on her first attempt, that I haven't even been trying at all, which is total bullshit. So, I ask you all, IS IT NORMAL to have such hatred for such a suffocating woman?

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Based on 37 votes (29 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Well, she's 87 so she won't be nagging you for the rest of your life.

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  • PossumMom
    9 years ago

    Sending you positive vibes and hopeful energy. GOOD LUCK!!!

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    • EccentricWeird
      9 years ago

      *Intercepts positive vibes, and steals them*

      NOW MY POWER IS COMPLETE

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  • PandaStars
    9 years ago

    I'm having some issues with my grandmother too!

    My family is currently staying at "her" house (though my parents payed for it...) because we lost are original home. My parents pay for ALL of the bills (electricity, gas, cable, internet, water, etc) and even supplies her with a car. She has always been cruel to my sisters for some unknown reason. She said that we ruined her home, even though it was VERY run down when we moved in (apparently there was a large storm?). We have replaced the floors, carpet, roof, and ceiling to make the place more livable. She is easily angered and is paranoid that we are stealing her things. She made a close-friend of mine CRY because she is homosexual, as well as criticizing me for standing up for said friend. One of the worst things, however, is when she makes up stories to try and diminish my value. Apparently I steal,lie, and I am rude and lazy. My response? I haven't lived there in 3 years and I stay at either my college dorm or my fiance's house. I work full time, while attending a full time college. I pay for my college/food/bills on my own without assistance from my parents. The only time I see my parents or her is when I'm visiting. Her reason? She asked me how school was going and I said "It's going" and told her how I was having a difficult time in an Anatomy class. Can't see how that's rude...I apparently stole a flip phone power cord from her. I have an IPhone...

    The list goes on...

    We currently are not speaking, nor do I ever due to the psychological stress she has made me endure. She believes that it is rude that I am ignoring her and that I'm being a "baby" and should "get over it". I finally told her, "I'm not trying to be rude but I believe that you hate me and it is extremely uncomfortable to speak to someone who does." She hasn't spoken a word to me since. I'm pretty sure this is what sealed the "no-speaking terms" deal.

    Sorry for the rant! It feels great to let it out! Just remember there are some people who you just can't be around. Avoid the negativity and be yourself :)

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  • Lifescape755
    9 years ago

    I've been in almost the exact same situation. I lived with my grandmother for almost my entire life and it seemed like I was a slave in the house from how she treated me. I too have Grand Mal seizures and I'm unemployed as well. My grandmother is turning 64 this year and I kept trying to tell myself that she's just getting old and delusional which is still probably the case so I try to ignore her as much as I can. My life is mine to control and I hope that you can see that for yourself as well.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    Yes.

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