Is it normal that i desire an obsessive relationship?

I've only ever been in two relationships in my entire life. The first one ended because we went through the annoying "on and off again" style. The second one ended because my partner and I had communication issues.

Personally, I've always been a clingy person. I love talking late into the night, leaving little love messages to my partner, hugs and kisses, and I know that I get somewhat jealous easily. I consider myself to be a pretty loyal person. Lack of loyalty is never acceptable to me.

A lot of my friends find it weird when I say I want someone who is a little too obsessed. You know: wanting to touch and hug a lot, getting jealous and protective, and being really possessive.

Is this weird? I've always thought it was pretty normal, but my friends point out that they hate it when their boyfriend/girlfriends get too clingy.

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54% Normal
Based on 41 votes (22 yes)
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  • i_was_fricasseed

    That scares people off. In a relationship people need their own space at times. No matter how much love you may have for one another.

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  • fluffy1uv

    I wouldn't mind a relationship like that either but i feel like they wouldn't be smart of me. What happens when we break up? My life is gone basically. I'm so glad i didn't let myself be this way with my exes.
    Yes normal but probably not a good idea

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