Is it normal that i daydream of other men constantly?

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Okay so here goes: My husband and I got together when we were sophomores in high school. I was 15 years old. We married when I got pregnant at 20 with my first son. 2 years later we had another son. For a while now I can not help but have feelings of regrets that I did not do any dating or that I have only been with one man sexually. I constantly daydream about being with other men. My husband is wonderful and I love him more than life itself. Why do I have these feelings of regret? I especially like to daydream of being with younger men that are like early 20s. I am 28 myself. Could it be that I just want their youth and carefree life?

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  • cgirl123456
    14 years ago

    The sensation of sex is the same with any partner. However, each man brings in his own experiences and his own "moves," which makes for variety. You should try role playing, or ask your husband to try some new moves out on you! Or maybe you should try something new with him (new sex position, etc.). If all else fails, consult Dr. Ruth. She will give you some snappy new ideas!

    Also, it's normal to fantasize about other men. You're married, not dead!

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    • cgirl123456
      14 years ago

      And honestly, do you really think that other people never fantasize about new and exciting partners?

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  • Leviathanel
    10 years ago

    just go have a terrible sexual experience with one of those kinds of men. in fact I can give you half seeing how i'm your type.

    i'm just joking, had to say something to throw in the line in the end there lol.

    sounds like to me that you're screwed. well at least you can have some crazy masturbation sessions.

    oh... damn I want to fuck you.

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  • FoxyOne
    11 years ago

    If you are having regrets, maybe you should take a break with your husband, and go have sex with other men! If your okay with your husband fucking other women while your gone, of course.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    11 years ago

    Everybody likes to taste new curries from time to time. Normal.

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  • BOYracer88
    14 years ago

    yea you probably want the care free life, it is ok to feel this way but realy you should be proud of yourself and what you have acheived not everyone can say they have been faithful to the one they love for so long

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    i am suprised no one has commented on this one. firstly, i think you are normal. you chose a life long partner at a very very young age, so it is natural to think about other men. if you are happily married then i strongly urge you not to act on this though. why not have sex with your husband but think of someone else.

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  • Thistlegorm
    14 years ago

    You have these regrets because you got pregnant and married at 20! Way too young! Try using birth control next time.

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