Is it normal that i cry because im single

Im 18 and ive never been with a girl, i cry myself to sleep sometimes

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Based on 170 votes (128 yes)
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  • Karyyk

    Crying because you feel lonely is pretty normal whatever the age (or gender). I wasn't with anyone until I was 21. I'm 33 now, married with a daughter and two more (twins) on the way. Things work out.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    My husband didn't have a heavy physical/emotional relationship until he is 27, and that was with me.

    And I'm fucking awesome, yo.

    The wait is always tough but hey, at least your wedding present to your wife won't be AIDS.

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  • I'm nineteen and have never been in a real relationship or really kissed a girl. Why would you cry about it? I honestly don't see the point in crying about it. If you want to be in a relationship, find someone to be in one with you. If you are holding the image of your partner to high standards while you're quite the low standard person to be with, then lower your standards to your level, it will mean you will get a partner that is more reachable for you to make a partner.

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    • Crudhouse

      You're one brave kid. My respect went up for you quite a bit

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  • nobleserpent

    As easy as it is, slipping into despair is the worst thing you can do.

    But normal.

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  • Aleks85

    It's ok buddy, at least you don't drive them away like me. I'm kind of an asshole, then I realize it, then I feel sad when I end up single again.

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  • MissClaire

    I think its normal to feel sad because you feel lonley. Unfortunately, this can foster into a sense of low self esteem and hyper sensitivity to some social situations; though this may not be the case for yourself becareful that you dont fall into that trap of self loathing. Make sure you know that you deserve the best for yourself! On a side note, sometimes people do not thrive in certain cities or areas - I moved ALOT when I was a child and in high school and I found that some areas, depending on the current social status of the area, I either had a wonderful time with lots of friends and in other areas I loathed every minute of it. Basically sometimes a change in scenery and people make a world of difference because you can essentially start all over and begin being the best you can be - no one will know otherwize. People learn about themseves as they grow and applying what you have learned in a new social group is such a good way to grow as a person and feel good about yourself. Having said that, you always have the opportunity to begin new habits where you are currently.
    I guess my main point here, hidden within all of this is that you should go to the girls rather than them comming to you - it can take practice, but thats what its all about - Trying and failing and trying and failing. Everyone has failed a million times, learned from it, and failed again, learned from it and FINALLY gets it. Find what works for you. SOrry this is long.

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  • nirvana_ftw

    Its ok your probably just feeling the pressure to have a girlfriend because so many people have relationships early..well im 16 and never had a boyfriend and thats how i feel..YOU WILL GET SOMEONE ONE DAY.

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  • kellstar79

    It will happen. Just be patient

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  • Dot123

    Don't cry over split milk.

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  • claayton93

    you can have my girlfriend if you like, she took the tv remote without asking the other day and im still quite pissed at her.

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  • volozi

    Not normal, if you want to get laid so bad just go pay for it. It's one of the best decisions I ever made.

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  • Javierinla

    There's someone for everyone in this world. Love will come your way for sure..

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  • username21

    See, I don't know if it's human desires, or social pressure, but being in a relationship seems overly stressed. I've known plenty of people who said once they got a girl/boy-friend, their lives became that much better, but honestly, if you can't be happy with yourself, you probably won't be happy with another person. Just my cynical opinion.

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  • purplegirl22

    I do this often, but I'm a girl. But its completely normal don't worry the wait is hard but worth it.

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  • Energy

    Dude gain some confidence! Start going out more often and meeting new people! You HAVE to start SOMEWHERE and waiitng isn't gonna do shit! What the fuck are you gonna wait for?? Things don't just come to us! If we really want something we chase after it! Man, so many people out there that feel just like you...if only you just opened your eyes and realized that it's all in your head, and you have to go after things not be lazy and wait!

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  • kellstar79

    Believe me when I say this, you have saved yourself much hearth ache and money by being single but one day when you do fall in love it will all be worth it. It's worth the long hard wait

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  • Darkoil

    And there's your problem, a girl doesn't want a guy that crys themself to sleep. Be more of a man and you may just get your end away.

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    • Energy

      LOL.

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  • Tehboss

    cry me a river :D

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