Is it normal that i cry and i'm so depressed?

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I've been with my fiance for three years engaged for two. In the beginning every thing was fine we loved each other very much and he said he wanted and needed no one but me. But as we came further down the line he started changing. He got so needy. He focused more on his job than me. His female co-workers is always around him. He always with his cousin and he never has time for me anymore. He told me when i asked him about it that he was doing a test to see how long he can go without me but the test is based off of him not me so it's unfair that he has people to keep his mind off of me but I don't have and don't want no one else but him, And it's driving me crazy. what should I do?

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  • MrSexyJesus
    8 years ago

    Maybe you have cabin fever? see some friends or something, contact someone and don't revolve you're whole life around someone else. Its that or do nothing I guess.

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    • Concerned_Fiance
      8 years ago

      I don't have any friends they all turnt their backs In the end so all i had was him

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      • MrSexyJesus
        8 years ago

        :/ ammm heck family? anyone really branch out don't let yourself become a hermit take up a hobby or something.

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    • kingofcarrotflowers
      8 years ago

      I clicked on your profile expecting to see an image of Jesus shirtless and ripped

      Son, I am dissapoint

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      • MrSexyJesus
        8 years ago

        Nevermind fixed it

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        • kingofcarrotflowers
          8 years ago

          http://keenepointofview.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/jesus-thumbs-up.jpg

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          • MrSexyJesus
            8 years ago

            :D

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      • MrSexyJesus
        8 years ago

        https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxx-DzlPgDCNTRsrnYuo6Qg
        try this

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  • reginaFalangi
    8 years ago

    It sounds like you need to make more friends, get to know more people and figure out your own life before you can think of marrying anyone.
    The fact that you have no one to hang out when he's not with you is wrong.

    I can't tell if he's agood partner for you or not, but what's happening to your social life is more worrying and you shouldsort that out.

    Good luck! :)

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  • Concerned_Fiance
    8 years ago

    I'm only 19 so being a hermit is mostly what I know how to do. I had a bad upbringing so I distanced myself from people cause i believe there untrustworthy. Not trying to be obsessive but he was the only one that actually was there when I needed some one the most now I'm back where I started and he's smiling his life away.

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    • MrSexyJesus
      8 years ago

      Maybe its not his fault, after all hes probably having a normal life by the sounds of it and maybe your difficult upbringing that its hard to see that. perhaps it would help if he was more supportive and integrated you into his social life, it may help break down that barrier.

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      • Concerned_Fiance
        8 years ago

        Thanks for the advice. I can see the normality of it. It's just the case where he only says goodmorning or goodnight. Doesn't ask how my day was, dry texts me, when I'm hurt he just says awwwww or ok. That breaks me down inside to make me feel like just cause now that you have a job and other people In your life the other person that had your back through it all doesn't matter.

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        • MrSexyJesus
          8 years ago

          Talk to him, let him know exactly how you feel and if that doesn't seem to get through then seek professional help.

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          • Concerned_Fiance
            8 years ago

            Alright thank you. I tried to ask others about my situation but they just called me obsessive and said I need to let him live his life cause he doesn't need me

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            • MrSexyJesus
              8 years ago

              no porbz, hard for me to say really, hope you deal with it ok.

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