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Whenever I get into a fight and beat a ''tough guy'' in my school I end up crying after I beat him and people start laughing and pointing at me.
You remind me of the boy from Perks of Being a Wallflower. You should read it.
First time i've heard of such a thing. It's probably just the emotion. Personally with me. Back in school, when I got into a fight, I'd beat up the guy and then still feel pissed! I'd be somewhat agressive for the entire day. I try to control that anger, or throw it on a punching bag! Best to stay away from fights.
It's the adrenaline leaving your system and you then crash and it causes you to cry, but you really shouldn't be getting into fights, find a sport you enjoy to burn off the competitive spirit you obviously have, along with the rage.
You probably feel guilty that's all, when I beat the man who tried to rape me I cried for the whole next day and I felt guilty and I was in shock because I felt so much rage that even after he passed out I could not stop beating on him. I think it was also shock at what you are capable of doing when you are so angry. I have been in normal fist fights and stuff and I have never cried then but then I didn't have as much rage or as many emotions that needed to be released. Its just a mix of guilt for having hurt someone and too much rage and strong emotions.
Normal. Just cry on your own time. You aren't crying out of weakness or because you're gay. You're probably crying because you had to resort to violence and hurt another person.
Look, fighting is a very emotional thing. Whether you do it for fun, honor, hate, competition, etc. Eventually emotion always enters into it. It's perfectly normal to be overcome with emotions after a fight. However in the "dog eat dog" world that we live in it's not a good thing to show that particular kind of emotion (i.e. crying), because it makes you look weak in the eyes of others. I think you should find a way to cover up those emotions whenever you fight and channel them into the next obstacle in your way.
Maybe after you beat someone you feel bad for their loss and want to cry for the, its kinda hard for me to explain, its probably a stupid answer anyway lol