Is it normal that i create scenarios and believe them ?

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So this concerns specially my emotional life, since i was a teenager when i like a guy i make scenarios in my own mind and i totally believe that the person is into me as well as i'm, even if he doesn't even approach me i make explanations such as he is shy or something. This made me live so many situations where i feel so hurt for things that only happened inside my mind. Even if a guy really liked me, i scare him by seeming desperate to go to the next level of a relationship that didn't even start (since the introductions happened already inside my mind). with the guys that i dated i find myself in two possible situations : either they leave me as i mentioned or i feel bored to continue with them cause i rushed things and came out with the conclusion that they are not good enough for me ... Actually i don't really matter if this is normal or not, but in fact i want a solution to this issue !! i appreciate your answers

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  • Dad
    11 years ago

    What?

    Its ok to fantasize what can be. But in reality its best to just take one step at a time.
    I just hope you will live happily ever after? Oh you don't know yet.

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    • wasjusthinkin
      11 years ago

      Haha!

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    • I_hope_i_am_normal
      11 years ago

      lol thanks a lot dad :p

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  • FJK_frm_AK25
    8 years ago

    That's so cute/creepy but still cute..

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  • pdfort37
    11 years ago

    My brother has lived his whole life on a reality he created it seems to work for him

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    • I_hope_i_am_normal
      11 years ago

      and how's that ??!!

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    I've done this before.it's weird. But i guess a lot of people do it so it's normal. Sometimes it gives people the confidence to talk to someone, but sometimes it ruins you're chances of even having a friendship. The question is: do you want friends or do you want people to think you are crazy? It's your choice.

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    • I_hope_i_am_normal
      11 years ago

      yeah it's weird and annoying especially when i revise the stupid things i did !! self control is the answer is guess

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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    Yup, that's normal. It's why most people have an euphemistic view of the past.

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    • I_hope_i_am_normal
      11 years ago

      i didn't really get it !

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      • Corleone
        11 years ago

        Well, it's almost impossible to have completely accurate memories. That's why people usually fill in the gaps themselves (mostly without being aware of it). That way, our memories are able to give a positive spin to what happened.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    I fantasise a lot about things, but when it comes things like love, you must go at a different pace. Within your fantasies there are no boundaries and you can adjust the pace, but in life it's the opposite. There are many boundaries and limits. The pace is usually much slower than when dreaming. You can't rush things.

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    • I_hope_i_am_normal
      11 years ago

      yeah i guess all i need is a bit of self control .. thnx

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      • Avant-Garde
        11 years ago

        Your Welcome:)

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