Is it normal that i control people to have sex in my dreams?

i realize now how sexual i guess i am by my intentions in my dreams and i want to know if others do this too. i have the ability to know when im dreaming, i don't think that's strange at all, i think we all do, but anyways, in my dreams i'm always wanting something sexual to happen, even if that means rape, to stimulate me i suppose, i realize this more when i'm alseep. is it normal to always want to have sexual encounters during sleep? like it's the main thing to do?