Is it normal that i constantly lie about watching porn?

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My girlfriend has caught me out lying to her about watching porn, looking it up on my phone and buying magazines. She told me that she's not going to ask me or stop me from doing it because it's my life and I can do what I want with it but she also told me it hurts her like hell that I do because it makes her feel like she's not good enough. Everytime she's found out about it it's always been by accident because I don't hide it properly or delete the history. I know it hurts her a lot but thats not why she gets angry, it's the fact that I keep telling her I'm not doing it because I know she doesn't like it. And she keeps catching me out. Even when I say I don't do it she'll say something like whatever I know you do. Just stop lying to me... Then I'll still say I don't. Then she finds out again. Is it normal that I still want to look at porn and do when I have a beautiful girlfriend who gets so hurt from it? And the fact that I keep lying about it? I don't want to hurt her anymore but its just a compulsion. I look at it pretty much everyday. Why do I feel like I have to look at other women especially when I know it makes her feel like shit?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I call this disrespect towards her. Many other things but I won't go there. You obviously want to hurt her because if you really didn't want to, you would stop. Anyways I'm gonna stop myself now.

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    • foxyk
      11 years ago

      i agree

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    Tools > Options > Privacy > delete browsing history on exit "Apply"
    Thats what my b/f does - he doesnt think I know....... but .... I do
    But seriously, porn is so.... you have to be a woman to understand that it does hurt a bit (for some woman) because they feel that they arent good enough to satisfy you. Woman want to be your first choice....... its hard to wrap your head around it. How would you feel if she did the same thing?

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    like you said sounds like a compulsion/addiction which are always easy to break :-/

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Because it's good goddammit! Either stop watching or learn to hide it better.

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