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I feel that 'comforting' the next of kin after a funeral is kinda screwed up, unless you ACTUALLY attended the funeral to grieve/celebrate/whatever as well and found someone you'd ACTUALLY like to date, not just going to the ceremony to see if the recently deceased has a hot daughter at one of her lowest points for a quick screw.
It depends.
Comforting others is fine.
Comforting others as an intentional pickup attempt, intentionally taking advantage of their grief to get into their panties is wrong
Keep thinking like that and no one will want to go to your funeral when you die.
What?
I think IT IS NOT RIGHT to go to someone's funeral to scope out the grievers, but my friend thinks IT IS OK to do that. So am I the odd one for NOT doing it, or is my friend the odd one FOR doing that?
No, you are right.
Your question sounds like you don't appreciate the societal ritual of consoling the family that's left behind (regardless of whether they were at the funeral or not) - which I think is very important and very normal.
You started with: "I feel that 'comforting' the next of kin after a funeral is kinda screwed up, unless you ACTUALLY attended the funeral"
Anyway. You're question makes sense to you, but I think your grammar has skewed the true meaning of your question. You may want to think about resubmitting, to make sure you get clearer results. Just a suggestion. I want you to get the most out of this.