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My boyfriend and I are 19 and have been going out for a year and like i love him so much, but every now and then I seriously wonder if we should even be going out. Does everyone do this with longterm relationships or no?
Yeah that's what I'm afraid of. We do have stuff in common and we do make each other laugh but whenever it feels like tense or that there's something wrong I kind of freak out. I wish I could feel more stable with him, especially after dating for an entire year, but I don't know the stability I'm imagining is even possible. I wish I had the courage to break up sometimes but I have no idea how hard it will be to find someone else, and I have no idea if it even makes sense to break up over something like that.
I do this too. If you've been going out for a year you should have a good idea of whether or not you should be going out...do you have stuff in common? are you close? you're very young and its possible you'd just like to be single which is ok, but keep in mind you may regret breaking it off for no reason later on. I've done this a few times and regretted it after I dated around a bit and missed the security of that one long term relationship, and couldnt get it back.
I do this a lot in my relationship. Things can be going well even, but I wonder about our long-term compatibility and wonder how long till something goes wrong. But maybe I am just neurotic.