Is it normal that i check my boyfriends phone

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I have bben with my man for five years now and I just did 18 months in jail. He cheated on me and said he found someone he clicks with. It's been four months since I've been out and now he swears he isn't cheating and he says he wants to make it work with me. I don't believe him. I think he is still cheating and so does my therapist. Is it normal that I constantly check his phone?

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Based on 82 votes (48 yes)
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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    You should have stayed in jail

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Not a 'trusting' relationship hey?
    You do know what love is don't you?

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  • cannibus14
    12 years ago

    i clicked not normal because theres just no point. don't do it. take a break or something. obviously u think ull find something and whats gonna make u stop feeling like that? are u just gonna spend the rest of ur relationship checking his phone?

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  • kittenlittle
    12 years ago

    Thats normal, he gave you a reason not to trust him when he cheated.

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  • mlbryan44
    8 years ago

    you should check and see if he has pics of other guys cocks on his phone, he might be a closet cocksucker.

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  • partofeveryone
    11 years ago

    That's horrible. Stop doing that. Terrible way to treat a loved one.

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  • pambambam
    11 years ago

    troll

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  • keeping_up_with_da_kids
    11 years ago

    Of course he cheated on you! You where in jail for a year and a half dumb cunt.

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  • jameskkile
    12 years ago

    dont check peoples phones!!! u wouldnt what him checking ur phone so dont check his. if ur that scared hes cheating on u just dump him

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  • xogirlygirlxo
    12 years ago

    yea its completley normal, i trust my boyfriend 100% and i know he wouldnt cheat, but i still occasionally check his phone

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  • :)realtalk
    12 years ago

    Yeah girl it's normal but it's all about trust if you don't have that you have nothing at all , you need to ask yourself if you want to be in the relationship always wondering what your man is doing it can get tiring and drive you crazy, just remember what ever is in the dark will come in the light don't stress.

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  • chatter289
    12 years ago

    Yes it is normal, and whoever says what you are doing is wrong or I would never doo it are complete utter hypocrits. I'm sorry but it is true. We do it beause, regardless of how trusting we are of our partner we still have the back And curiosity to check their phone. ESPECIALLY of they have done something to break that trust, therefore what you are dong is more of a defence mechanism, you look at his phone to reassure yourself that trust. So yes it's normal.

    But I do think you should talk to him because it's not fair on you and not healthy, it's messing with your emotional feelings and that really destroyes you. So talk to him and see what he says, but honestly, if you truly suspect that his cheating than leave him. I know it will be hard but you need to look out for you this time, when he cheated he was looking out for him, he becMe selfish and now you're paying for that consequence.

    Take back your pride, be a strong woman and sure as hell don't need his ass to make you feel great. You deserve someone much better

    Xx

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