Is it normal that i care more about personality than looks/gender?

When looking at people, I first think about their personality, then how they look. It matters much more to me. Even so, I do care about looks in some ways. I go to the point where I don't care about the person's gender/sex, as long as they have a good personality. I know that this probably is a good thing, and I really have no reason to be asking this, but I just wanted to get some feedback, since I never really talk to anyone about this. Er, I never really talk to anyone at all, but that's a different story.

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  • Aliceee93

    I go for a good personality over looks. Looks are important too. But a good personality is always attractive to me.

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  • We're rats we're rats we're furry and forlorn. We live in sewers love in sewers and our hearts are torn.....

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  • Riddler

    You are not shallow? Oh my goodness. What a crime. Yes its very normal.

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  • Avant-Garde

    You remind me of myself...

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  • Legion

    personally, I have to really know and connect with someone before i consider them for a date. it also means, i need to feel for them.

    i guess you could say i need to see if i have a future with them.

    unfortunately, that means my standards are high.

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  • (s)aint

    When I pick friends, I could not care less. They can look like Honey Boo-Boo's mum and I'd not care.

    But If I'm supposed to date you/fuck you there is some fucking limits even if your personality is amazing I'm not interested in someone who can't take care of their own damn appearance.

    Neither would I date someone who reaches to my waist/breasts (Yeah, some men are that short compared to me)

    This said: You are normal and a genuinely open person if you truly don't care about looks at all.

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