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I'm a lesbian, and a very good friend of mine likes me. I really care about him, and always think to myself that he is the kind of person I would love to spend my life with. I honestly adore him. However....I'm not physically attracted to him - I am attracted to women. What is going on here? I can't work out my feelings.
Just because you eat cunt doesn't mean you can't suck cock or get fucked, does it?
Maybe you should try and probe how he feels about you? If your just a really good friend of his, then it's pretty much settled isnt it? And if not, it doesn't make you any less of a person.
I have a friend whose girlfriend is a lesbian. Before they met, she had only once (in high school) considered a relationship with a guy (even though she didn't find him attractive) out of pressure and curiosity. It never went anywhere; one kiss.
But she met this straight guy and even though she has absolutely no attraction to other men, this guy is her true love, in all ways.
They moved in together several years ago (shocked ALL her friends, her parents and especially her gay ex-gf's) and they couldn't be happier. She still has no interest in other guys, but he says it's kinda fun discussing girls with her when they go out together.
Her sexual orientation has not changed (though many of her angry gay friends would disagree), but when she fell in love, it was with the person, not the gender.
Good luck.
Just enjoy it for what it is... It's perfectly fine to have a really close intimate relationship with someone that isn't physical.
Even though he's probably attracted to you physically, if he knows your a lesbian he shouldn't be too hopeful of anything happening there.
Just do what you feel, and don't feel like you 'should' do anything.