Is it normal that i cant wait to give birth because of this?

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yeah am 19 the type when the wrong side of the month hits am almost dead,PERIODS!!!!!....i get servere cramps gone to one of the best hospital around spent some good money and told that am normal and that the pain will reduce when i give birth.so i cant wait though i dont want to ruin my life and career by having a baby at this time.deep inside i just cant wait to have a baby....

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  • charli.m
    11 years ago

    Yeah I think you need a better reason for wanting to bring a human into the world. There are other things you can do to reduce period pain that don't involve the creation of another being. If that's the only advice the doctor gave you, I don't care if they're the best hospital, it's shit advice. Go see someone else.

    I got told all I could do for mine was go on the Pill. Saw a naturopath, and got a herbal solution that was unbelievable help.

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    • howaminotmyself
      11 years ago

      I've had great success with herbs. What kind did you take?

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      • charli.m
        11 years ago

        Just got the bottle. It's got Chaste tree, Dong Quai, Evodia, Szechuan Lovage, Cinnamon, Horny Goat Weed, Ginger, Peony, Licorice, B6 and B2. How's that for bizarre? Haha.

        I take two in the morning, two at night, for about a month, then I cut down to one and one, then eventually to one a day, and I can go maybe 3-4 months off it before things get nasty again.

        Did you have a specific one that you found useful?

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        • howaminotmyself
          11 years ago

          That is a bizarre combination, but only because of the eastern/western mixture. I don't usually see that here. Although I see no reason why it wouldn't work, just tradition I guess.

          I take chaste tree for daily support. And black cohosh the two weeks prior to my period starting then stopping once it's done. I've had good luck with black cohosh. I tried Dong Quai but it didn't work as well for me. Although it works great for some.

          I also drink red raspberry leaf and nettle tea.

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      • charli.m
        11 years ago

        I take a product called Menstrocare. I'll try to remember to check what's in it when I get home tonight and let you know.

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  • FocoUS
    11 years ago

    I think the painful period=painless birth is a myth.

    You could try to get birthcontrol that shortens your periods.

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  • BurnaBaby27
    11 years ago

    Coming from a woman who gave birth last year, no. It's a freaking lie.

    First, you bleed for up to a month. I bled for three weeks and then got my freaking period a week later and it was abnormally heavy. I stained the mattress because I giggled, stained the couch because I sneezed, and stained the carpet just for the hell of it. All of which came out with a little bleach, thankfully, but it still wasn't fun.

    I was put on birth control at my six week post-partum check up, and THAT'S what lightened my periods.

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    • the_misty_haze
      11 years ago

      This basically sums up what I was going to say.

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      • BurnaBaby27
        11 years ago

        :}, you're welcome. Hehe.

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  • lyokofury
    11 years ago

    After you give birth you bleed for about a week depending on the pregnancy. It gets rid of the excess fluid and membrane from the uterus. Its not light either.

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  • Donice09
    11 years ago

    Hey your the same one with the boob problem perhaps it's the fact your getting milk in your tits that's making them bigger

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  • cutegalsly
    11 years ago

    now am scared

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    • BurnaBaby27
      11 years ago

      You should be!

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  • cutegalsly
    11 years ago

    thanks....i will try that one out

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