Is it normal that i cant stand my parants

Is it normal that sometimes i wish that my parents were dead. My parents nage me about how much i cost them there money. Or that they spend to much money on me like going on vactations aross the world, but its always mom or dad who wants to go but then blames it on you. . Is it normal that sometimes i imagine them dead? Is it normal that i imagine my self away from them and in a differnet city thousands and thousands of miles away from them. Is it normal that you hate your parents so much you cant wait until that one oppertunity comes up to leave. For example its my birthday tomorrow and i dont like birthday parties at all, i like other peoples but not mine. i said i didnt know what to do so my mom said lets go to Hawaii for a week before school startes and before its your actual bd. Im like i dont know, she pushed and pushed and pushed, i said why not. When we get there i want to do all of these things, and she doesnt. But we do them anyway. When we come home it school we go back its my bd i said i dont want to do anything she pushes and pushes i said okay. She wants to meet my friends, okay shes paying because i dont go. Is it normal to want to cancel a bd pary because your moms complaining about how much it all cost but she want to do it anyway and how much she already spent alot of money on me and is complaining. Is it normal i hate my parents to a palse?