Is it normal that i cant stand my mom

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My mother has always been drinking throughout my life. She has verbally and physically attacked me. When I was growing up she always would pretend she was this loving mother and I was the evil daughter when we were out in public. Recently my father passed away and he was what held our family together. Now she gets drunk everyday and calls me or my sibling. One time I broke down and cried about my dad in front of her and she got drunk and told me I make everything about myself. Now I try not to talk about my dad around her. She is the only one allowed to talke about him.

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  • FreakyKing2
    12 years ago

    My mom is a sociopath, I've even had thoughts of killing her or myself but luckily I never did.

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  • theProf.
    13 years ago

    i think your mother is going through depression and obviously has a problem facing herself. she needs psychiatric help and you need to terminate all contact with her until she is well. if she never gets well then........thats that i guess. i know its not that easy but for your own stability and health in my humble opinion you need to......good luck.

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  • Savmagic
    13 years ago

    Johnny bravo is a fucking faggot

    Anyway I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. Get the fuck out of there as soon as you can one day you'll make your own family and make it a loving one brake the cycle your mom has created and be the mother she should have been. Youll get through it. Be strong.

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  • jessica1617
    13 years ago

    You need to get away from all that and surround yourself with positive people. Its clear your mom needs help and is taking her anger out on you... Shes using you as a tool and it isnt right. I know its hard but try to ahut her out and avoid her.

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  • awkwardali
    13 years ago

    Yeah...I can't stand my mom either, and I don't go through half of the horrible stuff you've gone through.
    Definitely time for you to do something about it. Talk to someone? If she is actually abusive, tell the police or /someone/...anyhoo hope you'll be old enough to leave that crappy home situation soon, sorry about your dad ):

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  • angelatarantula
    13 years ago

    i am sorry... my dad has always been an alchoholic so i understand exactly what u have gone through he was never loving either. your mother has problems that she needs to seek help for. she may even need an intervention. you are not the cause of any of her issues. she is choosing alcohol over family because she is an addict which is making her very selfish and uncaring. i hope she gets help for everyones sake. <3

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  • Nikitosina
    13 years ago

    Really sad story. Time to leave home.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Check yourself into rehab

    Control your crazy drinking

    Listen to mom she's nice & cares

    Have a nice day

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    • lifejk
      13 years ago

      Well JohnyBravo its obvious you cant read!! I said MY MOM IS THE DRUNK!! Maybe you should actually read the story before commenting!!

      You have a nice day too!!!!!!

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