Is it normal that i cant sleep without my boyfriend next to me?

I will cry and cry until I fall asleep when my boyfriend isn't asleep with me I feel protected when he's there and totally alone when he's not. I cannot sleep without him. IIN?

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Based on 601 votes (425 yes)
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  • BabyGotBack

    my girlfriend is similar. she can nap without me, as long as im still home, but sleeping i have to wait til she passes out to do anything around the house. i guess i'm similar to her. i've grown so accustomed to having her next to me that i can't help it.

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    • bhcrystal12

      yep exactly!

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  • dappled

    It's important for every person to be self-sufficient. Dependency makes us weak. I don't want to paint you as an addict but some elements of that carry forward.

    While it's completely normal for you to feel so much better when he's there, if you put all your stock in it, what happens if the relationship falters, as they are wont to do?

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  • mineral_samurai

    Sometimes I want to sleep with my girlfriend, and sometimes it just bothers me. But id rather have someone to sleep with.

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  • yourenottheonlyone

    well i wont cry but its gotten to the point where i sleep with him so much that it's wierd sleeping by myself. i hate him not being next to me :(

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  • 0404

    Poor thing its normal.

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  • starkitty

    awww...that's so sad and cute! does he feel the same way? if you're over 18, you dont have to sleepaway from him

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    • bhcrystal12

      yeah he feels the same way, i was with him every night until he moved out of his apartment

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  • TeresaBarry

    ^lol

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