Is it normal that i cant leave my bf home alone cause i fear he wil jerk of

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Well I know it is not normal, but how do I get out of this annoying habit? I moved to another country to live with him and at the beginning I was at home a lot because I could not speak the language and had no friends. I don't even know when it grew into a habit that I am afraid to leave house and enjoy my life if he was at home alone. I know couples live normal life and do not mind such things, how do I get out of it? I am now quite paranoiac and I am putting friendships and a fulfilled life at risk because of this fear. My bf does not have much libido, we hardly have sex too (maybe that's how I became jealous on porn?) so I don't think he cares much about regular masturbation..But how can I finish this whole crazy thing?

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  • Jimbo24
    6 years ago

    You need to be forced out of that fear. How? He needs to sit you down and make you watch him jerk off (to porn, to you, whatever). It'll be uncomfortable at first but you'll be getting used to it and get it in your head that that's just what he does whether you're around or not.

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    • Mimika
      6 years ago

      I would not have problem if he jerks off to me..problem is with the thought that he is lusting over other women. But yea maybe it is not bad idea to force myself and accept reality for what it is. Thanks for your comment

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      • Jimbo24
        6 years ago

        In this case, what you wanna do is slut it up, i.e. become more like the sluts he jerks off to. Example: wear something they wear, do something they do. Let him pick a clothing item or accessory for you or tell you what to do. That way more of his attention will shift onto you and you'll become the main object of his lust.

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