Is it normal that i cant help but cheat?

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When I get comfortable in a relationship as soon as it hits the point where I know the women is head over heels in love with me, I tend to loose interest slightly, and start thinking is this what i want, can i do better, what else out there am i missing out from by not being on the clubbing scene. I feel I'm not happy unless I have everything a woman with good looks and a fantastic personality which is so hard to find as most good looking women love selves or act like a Bitch, where as a woman who is average looking has better personality to compensate there looks, why can't I have both, people say you will never find someone who has everything, I fail to see this as true and think why should I settle for anything less than perfection in every way. Is it right to think and feel this way.

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  • Its_Called_Love
    12 years ago

    Don't date, you're obviously too imature to handle a relationship.

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    • Python
      12 years ago

      I can av a relationship tho ive been in two two year relationships before n never cheated then but was hurt badly x

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  • Dozis
    12 years ago

    Are you a modernist muslim of some sort?
    All of this getting women head over heels business is eventually going to become too demanding and sort of boring, then what are you going to do? get into gays?
    Of course you do not really like it once they are totally and completely into you, what you enjoy is the challenge, the thrill of the conquest, you see pussy like a new land to conquer and deplete of all resources then move on!
    You the man! You the man! Now go fetch me some young love you no good cheater. You son of a colombus.

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    • Python
      12 years ago

      Hell no i aint muslim n find this comment offensive

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You should settle because perfection isnt possible. And if it did you would not be the one that deserved it.

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  • DaddysBlondeGirl
    8 years ago

    I have very similar feelings and I am a woman so.. I cannot even talk about that with my girlfriends cause they are too moral and judging...

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  • t3d3o3
    12 years ago

    Do exactly what your body and mind tell you to do. If you want to cheat, cheat. You may hurt others in the process but you'll also hurt yourself, which is a good thing because you'll learn from the experience. I've been in the same shoes. As soon as the girl throws herself at me I don't want her anymore and act distant and aloof. Or I used to. Just keep going, keep at it. Eventually you'll wear yourself out psychologically and come to realize what it is you have to do to obtain what you're really after. For me I realized it just takes time and patience.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Your the only one whos gave me a sensible answer everyone else just slags me off when im asking in good faith i know wot im doin is wrong but still it dnt stop me, I just need to find the one who has close to equal qualities in every area x

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