Is it normal that i cant get over a breakup?

my boyfriend and i have been together for 10 months.we broke up over the summer for 3 months though.it seemed like the hardest thing ive ever been threw.he wants me to get over it but i cant.im always talking about how he left me alone.i know he want leave me again but i have no prof that he wont.im scared because i dont want him to leave me again.so what should i do .by the way we do love eachother

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  • Jan

    My boyfriend and i were together for a while, then we broke up last summer. We got back together in September and we just recently broke up. You have to realize that if he let you go once, he can do it again. Whatever you do, don't get back together with him because you're just setting yourself up to be hurt again. If he really loves you he won't hurt you.

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  • UltimateCloser

    Be careful. It's been my personal experience that people don't change. Meaning, that if he ditched you once there is a good chance that he will do it again. This has just been my experience and from watching friends in various relationships. Sometimes, it's been my friends that keep treating their significant other like crap!

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  • OoBayBeeHairoO

    Relationships are hard, but give yourself more time. I know that you really care about your b/f. If you love him then you both need to work towards developing trust.

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  • DDSaint

    Lolwutevukk

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