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my wife fucked me with a strapon and now continues to use it and buttplugs several times a week but now i dont get an erections
YBNormal (64294)- I agree. The gay stuff aint doin it, the straight stuff aint- psychological?
A true female dominant prefers her guy with either cock cage or constantly limp never showing her an erection. Your mouth is your best commodity to give her pleasure eating her pussy and licking her clitoris is all she wants along with that deep passionate kiss with her pussy juices. She rather have you jack off alone and not deal with the mess.
I think it’s all psychological as well. My mistress trained me to stay limp while I got screwed in the ass. She never played with my cock while fucking me insisting that I enjoy the dildo going in and out of my ass and prodding my prostate. This way when I was crying out she knew she was producing all the pleasure from my ass while she fucked me. I always got rewarded because pegging me was a real turn on for her and when she finished fucking me we ended up either in the 69 position or I ended up screwing her as well.
Thanks, Psychosocial.
Elaborating just a bit, to the OP, you may not find anal play (on yourself at least) erotic. It might even be a turn off. And your wife taking the "male" role might turn you off, too. If this is new play, then you might not even have known it would affect you this way.
I don't think there's anything wrong with this: it takes Diff'rent Strokes to move the world, yes it does. Assuming there's nothing physical wrong, switching yourself back to the aggressive role and her back to the passive may do wonders, if you can get your mind out of the past.
That said, even if it works, I hope you can continue to give your wife what she wants at least occasionally, even if it does turn you off for a time. Again, assuming this is psychological and not physical, it may just take some time getting used to it, but letting her live out her fantasies can only benefit you both in the long run.
There's not near enough information here to make a decision as to whether this is normal or not, but being played with anally shouldn't cause ED... if anything, it should help it.
If she started using anal toys on you and now you can't get an erection, my guess is that it's psychological rather than physical... but what the hell do I know? I'm no doctor! If you can afford to see a doc, I strongly recommend you get thee hence! The sooner the better!