Is it normal that i cant forget someone i love?

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In 7th grade I met a girl named Aly. I was was one of those kids who couldn't focus on their work so all my teachers decided to put me in more easy classes. I thought they were talking about special ed but it wasn't, but as soon as i walked in the room, thought that was lie.There were alot of werd people, NOT DEFORMED, just werd. I was scared, no one said a word to me, until a beautiful girl (and im serious) girl came up to me. She said hi and then introduced her self and i was soo lost in her eyes that i didn't notice her waiting for me to finish starring at her and answer. I felt soo stupid and still do. As the months passed, my love for her grew stronger and stronger but i never asked her because she had a boyfriend and i didn't want to come in between them. I would draw pictures pretty of her and give it to her when her boyfriend wasn't around. Eventually she found out my love for her, but i never said it. And at the end of the year (last day of school)i finally found the gutts to tell her wen she was heading to the bus to go home, i found out she was leaving to Ohio.She told me she loved me but she was leaving and that it was too late. She gave me a kiss ( probably to make me feel better) and left for the bus.Now im in new mexico and i miss her soo much.I dream about her,i he her voice in my head.I cant go on this way,Im still stuck in the past. Is this normal?

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  • Paradiddle
    11 years ago

    This is normal but it sounds like its best to try to move on, as hard as it is. Way back in middle school band class, I met a girl that I started to like and we began to hang around each other a lot but neither of us actually admitted to anything. It was my last year of middle school before I went to high school. I ended up visiting the middle school again during a band concert to see her again but I didn't see her there. I asked a friend of hers why she wasn't there and it was then that I learned she had moved away. Perhaps it was for the best that nothing happened if she was going to move away anyway. I do wonder how she is doing now though.

    I had a relationship after that which lasted for a year and a half in which after the sour ending, I had this permanent hole in my chest 24/7 for probably close to a year that just wouldn't go away. People say it all the time but time WILL heal things and you should simply try to live and continue doing things in life that you like to do or have fun with friends. One day the hurting will magically disappear and you'll be ready to love someone new. I still think about the ex I mentioned occasionally but only as a reminder that love does exist and other people have appeared to me since then.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You'll always have special feelings for ones you love, you're both quite young...but her saying she loves then turns around and says its too late doesn't ring true so I'd move to pastures new (even that's hard to do - I'm doing it myself now). You can be free to find a new love...least you know you're ready for someone special in your life :)

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  • DarnIT
    11 years ago

    Its very much normal no matter how much time passes by that desire for him/her is always there,but yes u can get over it and just by working on your mind and on the thoughts/things that pull you towards her u can tone down the effect she still has on you.

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  • diaperwolf21
    11 years ago

    I cant get over my high school crush. She was the only girl I truly loved with my heart.

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