Is it normal that i cant flirt?

i cant seem to flirt with any girl.
i've tried it, but end up asking silly questions.
can anyone help me to how to ask the right questions and put them in the right way?

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  • I think that's is adorable so it's okay some people likes people who is shy and cute!

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  • no.worries.

    Flirting is not about what is said it's about how it's said. A cheeky smile and a touch on the arm will go a long way. Sort out your body langauge so that you seem open to the girl; you are clearly a shy guy so there is no point trying to have a script when talking to girls because that adds pressure to the situation. Just be spontanious, cheeky and get in a wink somewhere = flirting.

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    • coldharbour

      thank you so much....
      i will put all those suggestions into practice.......

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  • chezycheze

    I would just ask them whatever you want to ask them (assuming that its not too inappropriate).

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  • MahUsername

    Don't worry about it. Practice makes perfect. There are a ton of videos on youtube about this subject, you could check it out. Search for something like: pick up girls, flirting with girls, or anything like that. (Simple Pickup is pretty good)

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  • Nokiot9

    Sure, we can all give u liners all day and you'll probably get rejected just as much. just try being genuine and charming. Making her laugh is a really good start. Keep ur eye out for the subtle signs that she is interested, like touching her hair and covering her mouth when she laughs. If she asks about personal stuff without prompting, it usually means she's interested, and you can move in for the kill, subtly.

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    • Ipooprainbows

      How is covering her mouth an act of flirting if you don't mind me asking? A typical shy girl will generally play with her hair in any situation/around anyone. Its really hard to tell if she's really flirting as its not black & white sadly.

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  • Go to a farm somewhere,and practice on COWS first.

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  • coldharbour

    Thank you so much for all those comments and suggestions... :)

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  • thinkingaboutit

    the act of flirting is not defined as asking questions. you can flirt with a person whether or not you know them, or are trying to get to know them. how bout you just throw them a big inviting smile and ask them how their day is? bring up a movie you like, ask them if they like it. ask them what they like instead...so on and so forth. The trick is to be open, sweet and natural (chill). Flirting is not something you have to try to do seeing as it will come naturally when you "click" with a person. You sound like your in high school so take it easy and try to relax. Mostly though, smile, compliment, and show interest by eye contact, and body language (put your hand lightly on her arm in agreement or praising, etc)

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    • coldharbour

      thanks a lot, .... :)

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  • BluntsRolled

    I dont think that something you can break down scientifically, you just gotta be social, talk and be funny, there's no specific questions to ask, and remember practice makes perfect.

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    • coldharbour

      thanks a lot.... :)

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