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is it normal that i can't bring myself to ask girls out, just to make it clear im not gay, girls say im hot and are supprised that ive never had a girlfriend but can you tell me if this is normal and if so how can i overcome it
Dude, exact same condition here. Don't hurry with it as
@:Forestfire0331 says. Have faith in yourself. If you must talk to her, go do it, face-to-face. Check out my question if you want. I have my fears too. But if you really love the girl, then take rejection in your stride!!! You're being very brave if you can expose yourself to rejection and possible ridicule!!! Best of luck!!!
Take your time :) when the right one comes along you won't be afraid at all you'll e drawn to her like a moth to a beautiful fragile candlelight and you'll be so glad you waited and didn't mess around with girls not worthy of your heart or energy... I know it's hard but be patient it will be so much better in the end :))) selah
I waited and now I am 10000000 times happier with the most amazing man who waited for me
And sex is insane and deep and connected and I have complete trust with him.. something all my friends who were sexually active from An early age are lacking... Trust me statistics are in your favor!!!!!!!!!
Its all very simple. Rejection is a part of life. It ranges from relationships to job-hunting, friendships, politics, car-buying, almost everything if you really get down to it. You just have to realize that the worst that could happen is they say no, and life goes on. Life doesn't end if someone says no, and perhaps rejection leads to reflection, and you learn from any mistakes you may have made.
Its complex and its normal you are just shy.But note girls like guys who are courageous.maybe they themselves want to go out with you but just wait you to do the 1 step.Be risky
Yeah I am in the same boat. It is the fear of rejection, my doctor says it might be avoidant personality disorder or just low self-esteem or something. You could try just overcoming it yourself by facing your fear, but if it's really deep-seated and paralyzing then there are always counselling options.
Yes, totally normal! No one likes being vulnerable to rejection like that! The best way to overcome a fear is, sadly, to face it; do the very thing you are afraid of. Besides, some girls think it's cute when you act all nervous. Just ask a friend out, and specify its 'just friends' if you don't like her. This should help a little bit, and teach you how to act on a one on one level with girls. Also, you have to learn that if one girl doesn't like you, it's not a HUGE DEAL. there will always be another girl. ALWAYS.