Is it normal that i cannot lie or trick a woman into sex?

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since day one I've been forever running into numerous of women who've been heartbroken from left to right. they've always complain about how the men who've they come across always would disrespect them and use them only for sex. on this same exact boat I've also grew up and when to school with guys who do these things for a living, but I seriously dont understand how most women can actually fall for their bullshit.

now I myself in the other hand cant seem to do these types of things, nor have I had the interest in doing so. I dont know why but I just cant picture myself lying to a girl and tricking her by telling her that I love her and whatever when all I really want to do is fuck her brains out in bed.

but oh well I dont know if this is part of my neurological disorder that I have but again I seriously cannot lie to a girl like this. I would rather make a fool of myself and tell her straight up that all I want is sex from her. which again this might not be a good move specially here in america where the majority of the women are extremely paranoid sheltered stock ups who either fear their own shadow or get offended over everything; which makes me feel even more confuse on how bad boys can still succeed on using them even with this type of ego and mindset.

but oh well is this normal that I have a tough time lying? am I really a minority in this type of life since most guys I been around again do this for a living?

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  • RainbowFlash
    8 years ago

    Dude, it's called being a nice person.

    People who trick women into sex or otherwise manipulate are nothing but scum.

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    • Vergil387
      8 years ago

      that's exactly what I believe. but at the same time I felt like it may be abnormal since the majority of the guys I click with seem to do these types of things with "blindfolds on and their hands tide to their back."

      I even been disdained and ridiculed for lacking the ability to do these types of things and the funny part is that most of these people who looked down on me for this were actually women

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      • RainbowFlash
        8 years ago

        All too many people judge the situation by gain. ie: They did the right thing if they got laid, irrespective of the consequences to the other party.

        It is very likely that "normal", is being an abusive ass because so many guys do act like that.

        I wish it was the other way around, I wish it was the good guys telling the bad guys off, but alas.. it is not.

        I have a skill set that would enable me to manipulate people, but I simply refuse to do it because it is a scummy thing to do. Other people have queried me as to why I don't do it too. :( (I am a lesbian and both genders have queried me on it)

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        • yourdeepestshame
          8 years ago

          As the saying goes, "Nice guys finish last".

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          • Vergil387
            8 years ago

            that's true but if you think about nice guys always get the true victory in the long run

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            • Smellyniggers
              8 years ago

              Nice guys often do NOT get the true victory in the end. WINNERS get the true victory.

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            • yourdeepestshame
              8 years ago

              As much as I'd like to agree with such an idealistic answer, I'm not sure I can.

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          • RainbowFlash
            8 years ago

            Just think about what you sacrifice by being a scumbag. Think about what you are doing to another human being.

            Would you want someone doing that to your daughter, mother or sister?

            If you just want to be another one of those jerks that turn bi chicks, lesbian don't complain when nobody dates you. Believe me, we talk to each other. If you have no female friends and women hear your reputation, you don't stand a chance and there's only one person to blame. You.

            Treat us like shit and you will be just another chauvinist pig that gets overlooked and blames everyone else for his own actions. Your philosophy about nice guys finishing last means nothing in reality and is just pathetic word vomit regurgitated by the likes of red piller's.

            Remember, I date women too. I deal with all the same stuff. I have nice male friends too and they all have partners, one is planning his marriage right now. You don't hear about them because they are not out in the dating sphere bitching because they can't get laid.

            @Vergil387 is right. Treat women and people in general right and you will find that woman. You will find happiness. Turn into a bitter, lonely loser.

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  • Smellyniggers
    8 years ago

    You don't need to trick women or lie to them to get sex. You just have to be confident, have direct and clear intentions, be in good shape physically, and have fun.

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    • Barbarella
      8 years ago

      ... and not have bad breath, and know how to read body language, and make good eye contact, and be perceptive, and know when to smile, and move with the right amount of swagger, and have game that is barely perceptible, and talk about things that interest others, and know how to flirt, and ..........

      But, if you are not attractive, game off. Your only option is to get used for your money. Sometimes the brutal truth is the best thing.

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  • sillygirl77
    8 years ago

    You're a normal decent human being

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    • Barbarella
      8 years ago

      That's good, but it's sort of a liability too.

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  • Statsmashers
    8 years ago

    Its called the 5 F's
    Find Them
    Feel Them
    Finger Them
    Fuck Them
    Forget Them

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    • Bake34
      8 years ago

      Lol in the medical field we have 5 Fs too...
      Fat
      Forty
      Fertile
      Flatulent
      Female

      Haha it's to determine whether they need an ultrasound for gallstones. Sorry just thought it was funny.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Fuck! Is surgery the only solution for gallstones? My mom had her gallbladder removed, but she wasn't fat.

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  • Myghoul2099
    8 years ago

    it's really hard to explain but i'm glad you don't like lying to girls at least that should count for something.

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    • Vergil387
      8 years ago

      if you dont mind me asking, which part is hard to explain?

      PS= not that I'm insisting an explanation and feel free to ignore me if you dont feel like telling me

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  • yu-gi-ohChampion25
    8 years ago

    i fucking trick them every goddamned time i want to put my dick up there ass.

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    • Dread-pool
      8 years ago

      respect meter is now full.

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  • IMissMary
    8 years ago

    No you can't Trick them into sex but you can give them a Treat for sex.

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  • jethro
    8 years ago

    Well when all else fails, get a hooker.

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  • RamennoodleMaster
    8 years ago

    its called, "being a nice guy".

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  • Steve2!
    8 years ago

    Maybe you should try NOT lying and tricking women into sex? I'm the last person to care for relationships, but that seems like the best way to have a fulfilling one.

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    • Barbarella
      8 years ago

      I appreciate your sincerity, Steve. Maybe a nice shoulder massage would help you to relax.

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  • yourdeepestshame
    8 years ago

    "which makes me feel even more confuse on how bad boys can still succeed on using them even with this type of ego and mindset."
    What could possibly be so confusing about that?
    It's precisely because they've the biggest ego that they second guess themselves the least and look down upon others the most. They're more likely to treat people badly because of their high sense of self importance. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying a high ego is necessarily bad, as it's certainly preferable to a low ego.
    It's as simple as this, some people are colder than others as far as which actions they're willing to take to achieve their objectives.

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