Is it normal that i cannot get over him?

I met this guy, he moved on to me slowly with out knowing it i was already in love with him it started by just kissing for along time. He always led the way to every step! then he started talking about sex, made it sound so nice every time we were together, he would talk about how amazing it is. until i agreed to try, that was my first time...and by the way we stay in the same house but not related of course.After my first time i asked my self is this how it feels? it wasn't nice as i had perceived. But he would tell me to try again and it would be nice, as time went on i thought the more i try may be sometime it will be amazing. This guy really hurts me so much by the way he acts after sex its like he will never talk to u again. he keeps his distance and when he wants to have sex, he talks his way to it, he has all the words that sound nice to here. That is the same routine all the time. I have no one to tell but i want to end it. How can i do it. I know he can never be with me. he will shout you out like when u don't do what makes him happy, its always about him, touchy,and i live with him.

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  • chatter289

    Aww Hun, big hugs. Unfortunately you have met your first ever sleaze bag of a man and an asshole. The best wan thnk is to try and stay out of hits way. B cold with him, say your hi and byes and carry on with your life. It may be hard because you seem to have attached to this assole but. Promise you it will get better in time. Just try ur best or he will continue doing this and seems like he is oly using you for sex. You're no ones door knob. Be strong and have some self strength. Good luck

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    • wounder

      The thing is i fell in love with him and i see every day remember so i need a way to move on. Something i should do.Tell me exactly what to do.

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  • Noodleflower

    Up with chatter :( he is a faggot LEAVE HIM! You deserve much more better... Like infinity more

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  • Ldizzy1234

    He sounds like a real sex craving scumbag! He only wants you around when its convenient for him. Ugh! I hate those types of guys. Push, pull, push, pull, push, pull, etc. You need to get out of this push-pull mess. Get yourself out, and meet new people. Find new faces. Everytime the jerk wants you again, just remind yourself of all the pain hes caused you. If you have any girlfriends, see if maybe they can help you out. Don't be afraid to tell someone that you feel used. And honestly, I'd confront him about this too. Good luck!

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  • joybird

    Don't let him use you and then abuse you!
    I'm sure you are worth 10 of him.

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