Is it normal that i can't wait to get married and get pregnant?

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I'm a teenager and I've never had a boyfriend before and I'm a total virgin. I can't wait until I get married and get pregnant because I just want the feeling of being pregnant. I don't want it because I want to have sex, just to have the feeling of being pregnant. I always have dreams that I'm pregnant and they're very realistic. Is it normal?

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  • happyB
    13 years ago

    I have been married for six years and am currently pregnant with our second baby. There is NOTHING great about being pregnant. You are nauseous for months, get fat and swollen, and then have to go through the pain of popping the kid out and raising it for the next 18+ years. Don't get me wrong, I adore my son and love this next one already, but WAIT until you are ready to commit to another life for the rest of yours.

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  • Anon146
    13 years ago

    It's normal - you're at the time in your life when your hormones are at their craziest, and hormones bring out your instincts. Female instincts tell you to find a mate and have his children, so it's not surprising that you fantasize about it.

    However, keep in mind that we're not really animals anymore, and that you should use your brain to decide if you really want it. Pregnancy and childcare puts a /lot/ of life on hold, and you don't want to miss out on the best years of your life because you're busy with something like this.

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  • whitefish0404
    13 years ago

    your mind is geared towards biological production which will ensure the survival of your genetic material, you are very in tune with your biological urges to spew your genetic material into the world.

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  • ramdom
    14 years ago

    You should get a pillow and stuff it under your shirt and go out in public. Rub your belly and say your pregnant. All the guys will love you!

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  • hotchickie81
    14 years ago

    Totally normal! Just make sure you're ready and you find the right person :) Good luck!

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  • ShinIod
    12 years ago

    Fuck and tell, that way you don't need to keep the feeling... the only thing is... that you might end up as a single mom... easily done if you love the creature you will have :1

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    • ShinIod
      12 years ago

      Nowadays... if you are independant and strong enough, you don't need a couple... just the wish to do it :1

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  • ThatsWhatWeDeerDo
    12 years ago

    I love that I'm not the only one..
    I've felt this way for a long time... And I'm the same as you, I'm a teenager (18), and I want to get married and have babies, not for the sex, but for the experience. Pregnancy fascinates me.. I don't know why.. Although, my boyfriend thinks I'm a little crazy... hahaha
    I often find myself just looking at pregnant women when I go to the mall with my boyfriend... he sometimes catches me and just whispers "someday.." to me... haha but I just love it.. I'm always jealous of pregnant women.. especially the one's that hate it.. I'd love to take their place for them;)

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    i don't know how dreaming you are pregnant can feal realistic to you, but, anyway,

    you sound like you are anxious to get your life going, and you've chosen marriage and pregnancy thinking that will be fulfilling to you.

    my only advice to you is to not rush into anything if you do get a chance while you are so young.

    have you seen the posts here about the women who made their choices while very young. they aren't happy ladies.

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