Is it normal that i can't tell when i'm having an orgasm?

terribly sorry if this question has been asked before, I haven't seen it anytime I'm scrolling this site.. anyway, I just turned 18 and I guess you could say I have a decent amount of sex but I have never been able to tell when/if I orgasm.. I was just wondering is this normal?? and is there any way I can change this because orgasms sound pretty cool. should I try masturbating or something? please help

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  • loopoo

    I think if you've had an orgasm you would definitely know

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    • emerillog

      I read a few places that a lot of girls can't even tell when they orgasm

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  • NotStrangeBird

    I take it you're a female?

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    • emerillog

      yes

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  • quentari

    Yes try masturbating. You will know when you orgasm, it's hard to miss. You MIGHT be "cumming", sort of a build-up that leads to nowhere and suddenly you're done.

    Experiment with yourself, there's thousands of guides on the internet

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    • emerillog

      okay thank you

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  • (s)aint

    Try to masturbate and don't stop until you are exploooodiiiing.

    For me the whole damn vagina feels pulsating and for a couple of seconds it feels amazing.

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    • emerillog

      how long does it usually take for that to happen?

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      • (s)aint

        It really depends. For me it is everything between a minute to over an hour, it depends on what i'm doing and if i'm alone or not. (Most people cum quicker alone since you know exactly what sort of touch you want)

        Basically, rub your clitoris, if it feels good you are doing it right. Continue with his and think about something that turns you on. It really doesn't matter what you think about, everything is alright as long as it's your imagination.

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      • quentari

        anywhere from 2 minutes to an hour, depending on the technique

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        • emerillog

          that sounds complicated

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          • quentari

            Well once you know what you like and how to do it you can be done in less than five minutes. While you're still learning what you like it could take longer.

            Or you know what you like and you make it last longer on purpose for a more intense orgasm.

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