Is it normal that i can't stop thinking about what could have been?
I met this guy online and we met each other in person. We hit it off very well and met up to see each other for dinner another time. After this, we went on what I considered a first date since he picked me up in his car and we went out to the city for the full day. At the end of the night of that day, he told me was crazy about me and even told me to consider thinking about being his girlfriend. I was so ecstatic inside. The next week following this day, he was minimally texting me so I figured he was busy with work. Then, when the next date rolled around, he wanted me to come over to his place for the date. I told him that I do not feel comfortable doing that at this time and he asked me why I did not trust him, even though it was not about trust, but rather a personal choice. The next day, he ended things with me and told me that he is not ready for a relationship at this time and that when he is ready, he will contact me. I am so confused and upset and I wish so deeply that things turned out differently. It has been a week since this happened and I am still upset about this. Is this normal