Is it normal that i can't stop thinking about him? not in a good way.

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I cannot stop thinking about this guy, but in a bad way.
I went on a night out with my friends and some guy approaches me and asks me have we met before, which was clearly an excuse to talk to me. He then kept bugging me to let him buy me a drink and all my friends, so we did. He then started asking me about my life which made me cringe because he started over complimenting me. I am going to study law at Uni in September and he practically started kissing my ass over how intelligent I am (trust me, I am nowhere near intelligent. I am going to one of the worst Uni's in the UK my grades are that bad). He then started over complimenting me on my looks (trust me, I am really not good looking!). He then started talking about a load of boring crap.
Me and my friends decided to take off and go to the next bar. I said bye and left. He then sprinted outside and asked me where I was going and said oh I will come with you. And we all stood there like who invited you? He left all his friends and they were pretty pissed off. He wouldn't stop following me all night, even when we kept leaving him. I even full on flirted with 3 men in front of him but she still kept grabbing my arm or putting his arm around me.
So all night, he was attached to my hip and kept trying to put his arm around me. People were looking at us like we were a couple and it was so embarrassing. I had a load of good looking men staring at me like wtf (I am sorry but he was bad looking. He really is a big, long haired, chinese man). He kept asking me out on the date but didn't understand the word 'no'.
He facebooked me like two days after and asked me out on a date. I said no I am busy. He replied saying well if you ever want to then just ask. It's been a few days now and I think he has got the hint since he hasn't contacted me. But I can't stop thinking about him. He really embarrassed me in front of everyone. Seriously, everyone was looking at me like I was a freak since he was gripping my arm pulling me around everywhere. He is just extremely cringey.
Is it normal that I can't get over the creepiness of him?
(sorry if it's long)

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Based on 90 votes (58 yes)
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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    Looks like he perfectly demonstrated how NOT to pick up a girl.

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    It's probably because he's Chinese. They're persistent, creepy, little fuckers that believe they have the right to any woman they want.
    Who knows, his technique may have worked in China.

    It's hard for them to understand that women are allowed (and encouraged) to decide things for themselves in western society. ...At least that's the impression that I get from the Chinese that I've met.

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    *You may want to check your Facebook privacy settings and block him too.
    *Also ensure that your number is not listed in the public telephone directory.
    *If he knows where you live, move.

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    • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
      11 years ago

      Lmao. In all fairness, all the western men that have tried it on with me in bars understood when I said the word 'no' and 'bye' and let me go.
      Maybe it is because of where he is from.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      ^^^This i'd say.

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  • Elliemental
    10 years ago

    I know this is a little off topic but is it really worth studying law if your not very intelligent? It's one thing to study it as an A/AS lvl but going to uni should be left to higher achievers otherwise your just wasting time n money.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Well, it's a year and three months since I wrote this post. I am about to go into my second year of study. I still wouldn't class myself as intelligent but people see otherwise, maybe it's low self esteem, I don't know. But I am doing well, made plenty of contacts who seem interested in me working with them after I have graduated etc.
      But I don't think you need pure intelligence to get through a law degree. All you need is to speak well, have a clear writing manner, confidence, determination and motivation. Hardly any of us could get anywhere in life if it all depended on total intelligence.

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  • Tarkio
    11 years ago

    Maybe you knew each other in a past life. You are like a magnet to him, and now he is in your head! Wow.

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  • sky915
    11 years ago

    Damn i wouldve kicked him in the balls haha

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    he bought you and all your friends a drink, first mistake there, its hard for men i think to know how far is too far and when confidence turns into creepiness. by you not being firm with him he kept going, he might not be the type for subtle hints

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