Is it normal that i can't stop loving him?

I really love this guy, but for some reason no matter what I do for him he constantly tells me I never make him happy enough I try to be there for him when he needs me but I can never seem to find out what his problem is. he has had horrible relationships but I work so hard to do all I can for him. and still he walks on me and makes me feel terrible about myself . help me out

never speak to him again 14
keep talking to him 1
just be friends 8
keep my distance 20
take my chances 1
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Comments ( 14 )
  • disthing

    I don't think he likes you like you like him. Keep your distance and move on.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Semen.

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  • pixie_dust

    Let me guess.. has he had a habit of putting u down? Calling u ugly, fat, stupid, etc? This is a disgustingly common practice men do to ruin ur self esteem and self worth (on purpose) so you will sell ur soul for him. He's a dispicable person to do this to u! I was there myself as a teenager.. it really ruins you. You need to talk to a therapist, counselor and/or ur parents

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  • Fartyr

    You'll never please him and people's personalities rarely change .

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  • Sailor_Cosmos

    DUMP HIM!

    One thing you need to learn about men, is that they have different ways of dealing with things. Most men just want to be left alone when they have problems and like to solve their problems on their own. They do not want a woman hovering over them asking them how they feel and if they want anything. Especially if this woman isn't a wife or very, very serious girlfriend. And if a man really needs support he will ask for it of his own volition. Men are not like us women, they do not usually like to admit or discuss their problems with others, unless it is something really serious that they need help with, and this is only after they have come to the conclusion on their own, that they need some sort of support system.

    You cannot "fix" this man or solve all his problems. Many stupid women think they can "change" him. Sad reality is you cannot change anyone or fix anyone's life. They have to do that on their own of their own will and clearly this guy does not want to change or think he needs to change or he would have done so.

    Also, stop trying so hard to please this man! All it tells this man is that he's got you and no matter how shitty he is towards you, you will stay with him and take his abuse! You teach people how to treat you and you have taught this man to treat you like a doormat.

    My advice is this: Get some self esteem, realize that you don't need to be going out of your way to please and help some dude who doesn't appreciate it! I can tell that you are young and don't have a lot of experience with men. You say you love him and while that might be all fine and dandy, this guy doesn't love you back. Leave with your dignity and find a man who will treat you right, but only after you have been single awhile and gained some self love first.

    And remember that the road to true love is never smooth. I had to "kiss" many frogs before I found my prince. However, I have such a wonderful relationship now because of all those relationships that didnt work out as I learned from all of them and realized what works and what doesnt. I dont see any of my past relationships as failure because of this. As long as you learn and grow from this experience do not view it as a failure and know that you are not the only girl who will go to bed with a broken heart, we have all been there and believe me it gets better and you will meet a nice man, but only if you learn to love and respect yourself first.

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  • Severus'sDaughter19

    No.

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  • Saycheese

    Just leave him and move on.

    It's obvious he doesn't care enough for you; there is a better man out there for you.

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  • OmNomNomm

    IF you two end up together which I highly doubt you WILL break up anyway later. Don't waist your time on him.

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  • ambotnemo

    yes

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  • runescaperules!!!

    Ok I'm not.gana sugar coat this at all he's usin u he's probly lyin to u to get u to be so desperate for him that u 2 end up. Doing uno wat thenu ull prob.never c him again so blocrk his.numba and wat not don't leave warniing He'll use it to advaqntage most likily limie make u feel bad that u thot that so yea just sayin and I wish u best of luck thro this

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    • Energy

      *throws a dictionary in your face*

      Anyway.....:)

      It sounds like my ex. If they're not making you happy, they're not worth it.

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    • runescaperules!!!

      Oh wow sorry about all the misspelings and what not I was tird and fone was all bein all whack

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    • Saycheese

      Huh?!

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