Is it normal that i can't stay faithful?

Every relationship I've ever been in, I've been unfaithful at some time or another. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now, and I've cheated several times. Never all the way with anyone else, but I have cheated. My boyfriend doesn't know about any of them. I really love my boyfriend, but I find it impossible to just be with one guy. Is that normal?

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49% Normal
Based on 194 votes (96 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • Ono

    If you cant be faithful then fine, but you should be honest with someone when starting the relationship then.

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  • Solophonic

    You don't really love your boyfriend, you just fear being alone.

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  • mandapa

    You dont love your bf or you just want to have diffrent dick in you, so why not you dump your bf and go become pornstar or somting lick that. If you love him like you say it than dont full around

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    • lizzzy

      You're fucking stupid!!!!! Just shut up!

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  • Browniegirl3

    Maybe your not ready for a serious relationship. If you really loved your boyfriend than you wouldn't be doing that. Take a break from your boyfriend and figure things out. Try telling him the truth.

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  • pooja_kothari

    You a cheating bastard, fucking filthy whore. You disgust me to the fullest extent.

    Bitch ass nigga

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  • emotionalwreck4ever

    dont hurt him by going behind his back girl i did it and karma bit me in the ass, either yuu stop or move on , goodluck.

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  • suze1000

    Don't be in a monogamous relationship. You want to be because you like the 'loving' part...but then you want the thrill of hooking up with a new person. Sadly you cnt have both without really hurting your boyfriend. People tend to be naturally selfish, but sometimes enough is enough. Just have open relationships.

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  • chatter289

    Tell him the truth. I consider you selfish for oly thinking about you and your needs. Have you ever thought about what this could do to him. We are social animals and learn from each other once he finds out, which he will wether you tell him or not, he would find it hard to trust his future gf thaks to your actions as he wil find it hard to trust her AND the future gf will have to try and work so hard to make him trust her thanks to you.

    Let him go. Be single and have fun that way, his heart is not a toy for you to play with

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  • Muleina

    Honestly, I find this very normal, I assure you. The human race is one who likes change.
    I always feel like that! :)

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  • Sabby

    Open relationship

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  • mark777

    It's fine as long as you don't lead people into thinking you want a monogamous relationship. be honest from the beginning and you might be supprised to find that the other person is ok with it. But hide it from them for a few years and they will certainly not be ok with it. hahahaha. Because you wern't being honest about your level of commitment and they committed more than you did, ouch. not nice.

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  • Corleone

    When you see a guy other than your boyfriend you'd like to kiss, try to override your sexual impulses with rational thought. Ask yourself questions like "Is this fling worth my relationship? Will this make my life better?"

    If you love your boyfriend, try to remain aware of it at all times. Also, don't drink too many alcohol, as it might lower your standards.

    If you still feel like a monogamous relationship isn't right for you, try talking to your boyfriend about having an open relationship. Hope this helps :)

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  • Lynxikat

    If you really loved your bf, you wouldn't be cheating on him.

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  • ccjigsaw

    "I really love my boyfriend" DERP! No you don't :/ Grow up.

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