Is it normal that i can't stand this person anymore?

So I really wanted to go on a little road trip with a friend out of the city and she said she would bring a visitor from overseas to show him around. I barely go on any trips and I thought overall it was a great idea seeing as they both can't drive they would not have been able to get out of town. On the way there it became extremely awkward for the hour long trip and I tried to make conversation but they both would not talk to me. When we got to the destination, and tried to go partying, the guy ran off and we couldn't find him. Anywho later in the night after my friend was drunk I found out how a couple days before her and that guy had fucked and now it is awkward between them but I couldn't care less because I don't know him that well. After that situation my friend became awkward with me and barely talked so I decided to do the same back and since then we haven't talked. Also she had a whole bunch of my stuff returned it to me defective and not even offering to fix it until I brought it up. The sad thing is we used to be really close and now those situations really pissed me off. The hard thing is I'm in a situation where I have to see this person everyday...and it still bothers me to even look at them sometimes

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  • Vyzr

    All relation ships go downhill at one point. Going downhill is easier than going uphill. You have to work your way up slowly and use energy to get back up to the top. Itll work out if you try.

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  • Phew - well you took a chance and saw another side to your friend, in the sense that they were both horrid travel mates and horrid to each other, and exposed & dragged you into to it all. Little wonder you feel burned.

    You are just going to have to vent, leave it alone with her and give yourself time to simmer down. Do not escalate anything with her because you can't help seeing her.

    Once this is behind you a bit, you will be able to be cordial, and, decide on the balance of things what relationship you want to have.

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    • oiroif

      Thanks for putting how I feel in words...you are right. From the other behaviors of hers I was ignoring when we were close I realize it's not a good time for me to be friends with people like that.

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