Is it normal that i can't stand my husband

Oh that's no good. How soon after you married him did he turn into an ass? Or was he an ass the whole time & you just are barely realizing it?

Thanks Mando honest and straight forward answer

Think twice and divorce if necessary. You got only 1 life to live.

Thxs Kricket for having my back and thanks to all for leaving positive remarks

Ps it's obvious your either not married or recently divorced lol living a lonely BORED life lmao

Bored guy thanks for the rude remark but trust and believe I am trying to make it work

lol, I just think you are a bitch and you need to fcking relax. Just in case try to talk about all this stuff with him, men don't have 6th sense or w/e other crap women think men should have

Thanks I will mention it to him again

well you werent in hospital for anything life threatening so for him to stay overnight is a bit over the top. my husband was in hospital for 4 nights and i visited him after work and i left to have lunch and dinner and i didnt stay over night. you are in hospital so you are in good hands. maybe you were too young when you got married but i still think you should get some counseling before getting a divorce to make sure its the right decision. best of luck!

I have spoken to him on multiple occasions when we started dating he wasn't like that but I noticed as time goes on he has just been very selfish about everything he's money hungry and just doesn't take the role I imagine a man to take.... Example I had to have surgery last month and stay over night. The day I was admitted he did get off work earlier to meet me at the hospital but didn't stay over night, and the following morning after surgery I came to visit me and left to go to a football game...I think thats not what a husband should be like... Mind you this was my first time in the hospital for anything Is it just me or am I over reacting... I've never been married before ???

Talk to him about the things that troubles you and if nothing divorse dont be afraid.You will then regret that you wasted yor time on a man whom you cant stand

I have known my hubby for six years married 1. Maybe you got married too early on. I know that in our relationship we have to make an effort to make eachother feel special, but it takes both parties. Sometimes I feel like I need to get out win friends. Maybe get out more so you appreciate eachother more?

well since you said he doesnt know how to live with someone, why dont you teach him how to. he obviously had everything done by his mummy and maybe expects you to do the same for him. talk it through first before making any decisions and even maybe get some marriage counseling but if you hate him that much, i dont think anything will make you change your mind about him.

Dang, three yrs is still pretty early to be ready to take a hike, maybe u and him can talk it out and c where it goes?... Good Luck :)

Bored guy, you are clueless. You clearly don't know how a woman needs to be treated properly. Douchebag, grab a brain how about.