Is it normal that i can't stand my bestfriend?

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Okay so, honestly I have this one friend that just drives me insane. She honestly just gets under my skin. I haven't been friends with her for a very long time. Only 8 months. It's not like we have a history together anyway. Okay so everyday is the same, she thinks that she's always right & she tries to bring down myself esteem. I don't get it. I do a lot for here. I mean, I think I'm a pretty good friend. I make her feel like she's one of the most beautiful girls in the world. She even told me that since I've been friends with her, her selfesteem went up. I think it has gone up to much though, she thinks she's the sh*t, like she seriously is way too cocky. I mean, she's pretty. But, she makes it seem like she's the hottest girl in the world..she is also quite dumb. xD lol, but she thinks that she is smarter than me, which she isn't. When I'm with her around people she acts so different. She acts toooooooooooooooooooooo affectionate, I mean she constantely has to hug me, I mean I like hugs, but not when you squezze me, & she doesn't understand that, she thinks it's okay to take me out of my comfort zone and just do that, & she complains when I push her away, she makes fun of me also, & I told her a secret I shouldn't have, she always teases me about how my father used to abuse me...Not cool. She talks shit about me, to my friends, & she calls me a bitch to them, but she can call me her "bestfriend" when she is with me? Like seriously noo, I just don't wanna be around her. Is this normal, thankyou for reading. (:

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  • JenAus1217
    12 years ago

    Seriously? Whoever in your position wouldn't be able to stand your so-called 'best friend'. No, she's not even a good friend. Teasing about your past, not respecting you and even talking about you behind your back? These are not what a friend is supposed to do. She sounds like a pretentious person.

    If she makes you feel uncomfortable or lowers your self-esteem, then you should go find another best friend. She's no good for you. You don't have to let her keep bothering you or hurting you while there're certainly people out there who're willing to befriend you and make you happy.

    You deserve a better friend! Take care :)

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    • TinaMariee(:
      12 years ago

      Awhh! Thankyou soo much!I appreciate it....just have to find away to stop talking to her. /: but thankyou for your comment, it means a lot!

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  • mulanmalice
    11 years ago

    Find a new/real friend. One that respects you because obviously she can't.

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  • Stinger007
    11 years ago

    I think they are called "frenemies"? Anyway, you have to have self respect to not be around those types of people. It's hard when you're trying to fit in socially, but I can say the best thing I did was get rid of toxic people in my life.

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  • theoldgoat
    11 years ago

    pretty normal yup this is todays friendship especially hoes to hoes bffe! no offence(or not!) whoop whoop change friends and start acting more mature stop critising her behind her back like she does.Say the things that annoy you when she is with you face to face then choose if you want to continue being friends with her.Dont come here whining and dissing her behind her back youre just being meaner than her and doing pretty much the same thing as her.And btw since you hate her why u keep being friends? o.O

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  • iggyj
    12 years ago

    Dump her. She is abusing you. You will find a better friend. I promise.

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  • pufferton
    12 years ago

    Yeah you clearly deserve better... And she is definitely not a real friend. Real friends make you feel good about yourself, stick up for you, don't try to make you feel uncomfortable, help you through hard situations, make you laugh, etc.. And clearly she does none of that. Get a better friend! Once you stop talking to her maybe she'll realize she's a shitty friend and try to be a better person, if not, then she can continue her life lonely in the long run :)

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