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I am a girl. Is it normal that when somebody goes down on me and performs oral sex, I can't orgasm? I have never been able to orgasm from oral sex. It feels good and all, but I cannot climax from it. Is this normal?
First of all, I recommend you this book:
www.edenfantasys.com/books-video-audio/educational-informative/the-ultimate-guide-to-orgasm-for-women#pcode-TTF
Second of all, either you are very young and you need more time to know your body, your senses, your desires, what you like what you don't like or I think your boyfriend does not do it right. For instance I had a girlfriend and when I went down on her she would not need 5 minutes before having very very intense orgasm.
She became obsessed with my tongue and loved the way I did things down there.
With my current girlfriend with the same technique, in the beginning of our relationship she could not climax at all just like you. I had to change my ways of going down on her, adjust my technique to her senses.
I've been with many girls and point is here that I think every women is very different when it comes to oral.
To make my girl have orgasm through oral I don't spend 5 minutes but at least an hour or much more pleasuring her and in a very passionate way. Kissing her body very slowly, her breasts and her inner thighs until she is shivering and screams that she wants me to kiss her 'there'. Also I start things very slowly there, just touch her vagina with my tongue very gently and caress her with it. I kiss her everywhere there too, gently and slowly, except the clit. After moving there slowly I build up the speed and pressure. = Multiple intense orgasms :)