Is it normal that i can't orgasm from penetration?

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I'm 19 and I've been sexually active since age 15. I have plenty of experience and have tried sex numerous different ways (soft, hard, different positions, fetishes, etc.) and have never had an orgasm from penetration, no matter how amazing the sex actually was. I've tried fingering in different ways since I can remember and have tried different toys and it doesn't work. I discovered at age 18 that by applying hard, steady vibrations to my clitoris is the only way I can achieve orgasm.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Yes. Most women can only achieve orgasm with clitoral stimulation, if I'm not mistaken.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    that's normal. many woman need more than being poked inside to orgasm.

    i've had some, mainly with my boyfriend. but overall, the majority of mine are external clitoral vs internal clitoral.

    "internal clitoral" ? what?
    Remember, even a penetrative climax is actually clitoral. The clitoris actually extends down both sides of the vaginal walls, although it's obviously a bit deeper inside than the part at the apex.

    This is why it's easier to climax from having the area around the tip stimulated.

    For penetration... it may depend. Not just on position, or hard vs soft, but how much stimulation your partner gives you around the vaginal opening as well. If you do want to experience one with penetration, I would personally recommend having your partner stimulate you on both sides first, holding back until you yourself cannot wait to complete the act.

    remember, men are usually ready to penetrate much sooner than us gals are. meaning that sometimes we're not as ready as we could be when we're being entered.

    he won't die if he spends some time getting you extra ready.

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  • drbishop
    11 years ago

    I very much recommend you this book:
    http://goo.gl/UEd7k

    It helped one of my lady friend.

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