Is it normal that i can't orgasm during sex?

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To be completely honest, I'm an extremely sexually excited person. And I do masturbate on a normal basis, and I do get off. However, once I get into the actual act of sex, I can't orgasm, even if I want to come. It leaves me feeling very... awkward and wanting, I suppose. Is it normal for me to be this way, or is there something wrong with me? It seems that the only way I can get off is by myself, even if I really want to have sex and orgasm with another person. Help please. And serious answers only.
Also, I know that vaginal penetration doesn't really get me off. But even when somebody is using their own fingers or mouth, I still can't orgasm.
TL;DR. I can only orgasm when I'm masturbating. Is that normal? Any advice?

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  • MESOMIKE
    13 years ago

    Guys get off on watching girls masturbate. So, make it part of the encounter.

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  • stealinsugars
    13 years ago

    The only advice I can offer is if you know what gets you off, tell your partner. Show them & don't be afraid to speak up, ask for what you want.
    As for penetration, a lot of women can not orgasm with penetration alone. Completely normal.

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime
    13 years ago

    It is normal for a lot of women not to be able to orgasm during sexual intercourse and even other stimulation like you have mentioned. Perhaps tell your partner and show them step by step how you like it and the pressure you use etc. Men love watching women masturbate but most women are uncomfortable doing so.

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