Is it normal that i can't leave my boyfriend?

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Righto, I have never done this but here it goes. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. We feel in love during a summer we spent together after meeting properly when he moved into my friends house (we are both students at university). Currently we live in a tiny room together and there is a lot of tension. At the moment he has been insulting me an awful lot - judging me at every level.
This is my final year at uni and I'm overcome with my workload yet I have had to get a job to pay our rent because he refuses to and my loan has not yet come through. He doesn't trust me and believes that I have had my loan and spent it on myself (yet I have nothing new) and wont let me see my friends. I know there money issues and we are a lil stressed right now but his mum keeps getting involved and well I don'y know what to do... This man is the man I love and thats that, i will run to his side whenever needs be.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    He's not being fair to you and is being extremely selfish.

    It's your loan and you're entitled to spend it whatever way you like. It's you that has to pay it back. Once you've destroyed your grades you'll look back and regret ever being involved with him :o(

    If his mother wants to get involved, get him to ask her to pay the bloody rent!

    Grow up and move out!!

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  • #FckItImOnOne
    11 years ago

    Your bf is taking advantage and he seem to be verbal abusive. He should appreciate that he has a girl who cares about him alot! If I did that to my gf she would left me in a second. If he doesn't appreciate what you do. Fuck him he doesn't need you! It's that simple.

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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old
    12 years ago

    I don't think it will get better. What would happen if you lived on your own or with roommates (to make rent cheaper)? Write out a list of pros and cons for staying and one for leaving. You'll feel a lot better if you do.

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  • theabider
    12 years ago

    Have a nice long discussion. If you feel like he's the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, there will be sacrifices, and you need to face that fact. If you only meant this for a sweet little fling, then maybe it's time to tell him you will take no more. Communication is always the key.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    Just say exactly what you've written here to him. That'll sort things out, don't tell us, tell him

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