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i'm not longer with this girl that i love yet we still get together sometimes for some "fun". everytime we have "fun", i can't seem to last too long and she says it's cool with her. is it normal for me to feel like crap and is it normal for me to not last too long?
I hate to break it to you, but those people you see in porn movies who supposedly last anywhere between 30 minutes to an hour actually only last a few to several minutes at the very most. It's called editing. They shoot multiple cuts and scenes and put them all together in what seems like one entire session.
You're very normal to last a few minutes and it's very normal to feel apprehensive about your girlfriend's feelings. You should NOT, however, put yourself down or beat yourself up about it.
That's true, I myself have sadly been addicted to porn, but I've seen it, they don't last for 30 min straight, maybe taking 3 minute breaks or so but you can still act in porn just as much as a movie
Don't talk rubbish. I know plenty of guys that can fuck for at least an hour at a time.
It is normal if you are horny and young and you do not have sex regularly and as often as you need. Some good advice has been given by other users so far. I would say:
-do not stop after the first ejaculation, but go for the second round after some time or immediately
-meanwhile (between the first and second and third) round you can stimulate her orally or manually
-use condoms to make penis less sensitive
-try different positions, in some of them you may last longer
-alcohol might help (as Darkoil suggested), at least it can help some of us, maybe it is individual and depends on the person and the situation but it is not bad idea.
Try masturbating 30 mins before you have sex, it might help keep your boner longer.
the trick to lasting long for a guy is to distract yourself. let your mind wander everywhere but there. take breaks and give oral or something when you feel yourself getting close to prolong it. you cant even mentally be there for 90% of the sex, and then for that last ten percent, you can get into it and finish.
and masturbate nut one out of the way, so you are on nut two for the real deal.
It is just as normal as falling off the bike for someone who is still in the process of mastering it. Self recrimination is possibly the worst way to go around it. Accept the fact that you were not born perfect, and take it as a challenge to improve yourself. Think of it as exercising any other muscle, and be glad that you have someone comprehensive to practice with. Very few do.
Try mixing it up a bit so it's not just about you and trigger - your penis - but also her, ask and she'll have a few ideas. Also, as someone else pointed out, in round two you will stay in the ring longer.
My ex fiance didnt last long with me,once he would cum he wouldnt want sex most of the time till the next day. It didnt bother me much but he always told me i had alien pussy lmaoo he would say all the time''your pussy is so tight and sucks me inside there and sucks the cum out my dick'' that was always his excuse lol
I wish I could say that from me, but for me it's rarely less than 20 minutes.
Ok if u wana last longer thers this shit u put on ur dick to like num it I don't no the name but I recomend it if u get it follow the directions! My cuzin didn't and she had fun but he just couldn't cum lol but yea u should look into that stuff
Think of yourself she love you to get down to her wet pussy lick it make it quiver or squirt then sink your cock in and blast away mmm makes me cum just thinking of pussymmmmm
In the beginning my boyfriends couldn't last any longer then a few minutes either, but now he can last for hours! You just need to do it more, or masturbate more, you will last longer and longer, so there's nothing wrong with you!
Just practice by jerking off and holding on as long as you can. Train your body to last longer. I will agree though that marathon fucks and hard fucking aren't very fun for me either. I think it should take as long as needed which is usually 10-20 minutes usually for my girl. Ladies first
Well there is what you call foreplay I for one likes to lick pussy until she cums more than once then penetrate that sweet thing
doctors can help premuture ejackulation there is meds for this and they work great antidepressions what they will give you in low dose
how difficult is it for her to come? I know my fiance doesn't always last very long, but I'm even quicker than him so that's fine (seconds are always better anyway). Going too long can be worse than cumming too quickly, especially if she's already cum and you're still going.
Also I actually don't recommend alcohol, guys seem to get more forceful and move the poor girl around a lot more when they've had a few, focusing on their pleasure rather than on whether or not the girl WANTS her legs crossed and her ankles touching her shoulders :/ lol
Practice makes perfect, I read that if you like take second breaks and just calm down a bit it will have stop ejaculation. Dont be noticeable. ( im a virgin no idea if this works)
Try to find a position that speeds pleasure for her and slows it for you. Also, extend fore play so she can get warmed up nice and good. Ask her what really turns her on.
Next, don't just thrust. Play with her nipples and her clit maybe during sex. Try all these methods until you can both cum near the same time.
Even if I don't, my fiance just won't stop until I do. And he lasts for an hour.
could u use 3/4 latex till u get control? one could take them off in stages , bye happy new year! 2013 , Year of the snake! (the fast snake lol)
Your probably still new but not normal for not lasting, normal for feeling like crap, you should be happy she accpepts it sounds like a good girl
listen get over this shit about satisfying the women...it all about you ...dont worry about it