Is it normal that i can't imagine being in a relationship?

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It's not that I'm some crazy party girl who doesn't wanna commit to one guy, it's actually the opposite. I'm 18 and I never had a boyfriend because I don't get how those stuff manage to work and what's the point of it allLike, how people live with not being the first one? How do they cope with the initial feelings fading? How do less attractive/average people deal with having to settle? How do women (and men) put up with their partner looking at other women, which is unavoidable?

All those questions make me think that's it's better being a girl who has bunch of guys drooling over her without any of them ever getting past the second base.

I also don't get hooking up with people in clubs.Like, everyone looks fine there, especially with a couple of drinks.How can some idiot you don't know help you feel better about yourself when he probably doesn't remember what he did, let alone what you look like?

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    I felt like that last paragraph kinda asked a different question. I'll try to address your initial question and then the last one.

    I can sort of understand where you're coming from, but that's because I also have not been in a relationship. But I have had some amazing friendships. Friendships where I can tell the person anything, we can totally feel comfort with each other. But we won't have sex, that's really it. But I think what you're saying makes sense. Like it's better to just be single and remain somewhat happy, than go through heartbreak after heartbreak, or possibly not, and for what? Why test the water if you don't want to swim? If you're happy where you are then there's not really much incentive to change your position. I don't know what being in love is like so I'll kind of just stop talking here.

    As for your last question, well everybody usually enjoys sex. Even if you may not remember you'll still feel it. It's a momentary thing that is awesome, and when you're drunk I imagine everyone is sexy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Not many people really want to settle down in a long term relationship at 18 anyways. Relationships take practice with trial and error like the majority of other things in that are thrown at you throughout life.

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    • ♡Primadonna♡
      10 years ago

      But that's the thing.I want to settle down and find true love that will love me only and think about me only for the rest of his life, but I know that's unrealistic and I can't live with that.I couldn't even deal with having sex with some random guy knowing that he probably did it with bunch of girls before me and will do it again soon.

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    You'll never know the answer to those questions unless you end up facing them. But if you don't want to face them and you're happy where you are that's good too :P

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  • kelili
    10 years ago

    You're still so young and still have so much to learn. For now just live the way you want to and life will teach you the rest. You still have much time before you start to worry about life.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      **Smacks fanny**walks away swiftly**

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