Is it normal that i can't get turned on by my girlfriend anymore?

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I am 18 years old and virgin.

The first 3 weeks was pretty easy to get a erection with my girlfriend, just staying close was enough, but now not even if I see her naked I get excited. And it's getting worse due to anxiety this is causing.

Is it normal? I like her, but I'm not "in love" with her, and I know she likes me much more than I like her, maybe I'm feeling guilty for no being able to correspond her love (and I never will, I know she just isn't "the one")? In the first 3 weeks that I didn't care much about her was fine to me, but now that I'm emotionally attached seems impossible to get one erection. Should I break up?

Sorry for the bad english.

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  • Dad
    11 years ago

    Well I don't know if you should be associating your 'erection' (or non erection) with your love/like for your GF. Because you even stated yourself this could be anxiety or even that you feel a bit guilty that she loves you more.

    I think you need to re-decide how much you 'like' this girl, and if you would feel better away from her (and possibly with someone else)
    But just remember if you're with 'the one' oneday and can't get it up! That doesn't mean you don't like/love her.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    If you like her than why break up with her?
    You might just be nervous because you now have deeper feelings for her.

    An example would be the first time my friend and his gf were going to do it.
    He had gotten plenty of erections from being close to her but now when they were going to do it he just couldn't get it up.

    I'm not saying it's exactly the same but it might just be a phase that will last for a while.

    My advice is to give it some time and see if it gets better.

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