Is it normal that i can't get over my best friend?

My best friend of 6+ years stopped being friends around 3 months ago. I've always been depressed, but me losing her added to it. I don't know if it's normal that I'm torn from it still... Songs remind me of her, her favorite movies, other things she likes. And when I see her boyfriend on Facebook, I become enraged because he's part of the reasons we stopped being friends. After months, are all these emotions normal? And I look at her twitter a lot because she blocked me from Facebook. We're about to graduate and I feel like we'll never be friends again. is it normal or am I just obsessive and crazy?...

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Based on 39 votes (33 yes)
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  • alv1592

    Wow, that's really sad. But think of it this way: if she dumped you as a friend because she got a bf, she wasn't a true friend. My bestie has a new bf but she doesn't ignore me, and if by any chance I date the guy I like, I'll never forget about my friends. I know it hurts to feel forgotten, but you can always find new friends. It's not hard at all. Good luck!

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  • DaemonWolf

    You said you ratted on her about something you were worried about. Think about what you did. Was it right? Do you even now think it was the right thing to do?

    If the answer is yes then you have to question why your friend has ended things with you and why she can't see that what you did was right. Look at it as though her action of cutting ties with you shows up what type of person she is. Do you really want a friend that won't accept you for doing the right thing when it isn't in her best interests? Sounds like you're the better person here and perhaps it's a blessing she isn't in your life anymore. Try and think like this for a while and perhaps that will give you closure.

    If the answer is no then try and apologise to her. Write a letter or something. Be sincere, explain your actions, explain that you're human and you made a mistake and that you're sorry. If she still doesn't forgive you .. well that's her choice and you can't change it. But perhaps the action of apologising will give you some closure.

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    • Imonlyhumanxxx

      The answers were yes. But yeah I wrote her a 3 page typed letter. I don't know if she read it or she tore it up before she read it because I had people telling me two different things of what she did to it. But yeah I will think about, thank youu.

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  • thinkingaboutit

    Yes, it's normal. You will find that years later, the loss will still tingle in your chest. It's best to focus on yourself, and your happiness. Forget about her twitter. Forget about her.

    It isn't as if she doesn't love you, she'll always love and miss you no matter how much she 'hates' you. She lost her best friend too, you know. Sending her apology letters will make it easier for her, and more difficult to more on for you.

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  • MoeLester

    Yey*

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  • MoeLester

    It's completely normal to feel the way you do, but she sounds like a horrible friend. Do you not have any other friends? Hopefully you do because it's time to move on, bruh bruh. She'll eventually realize that she made the wrong choice and that she misses you and wants you back, but you'll have completely forgotten about her by then :{D yet
    And they all lived happily ever after

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    • Thewomanizer

      lol i like that story

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    • Imonlyhumanxxx

      Im the OP. Well I can't forget about her, my brother and her sister are engaged to each other...

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  • JaysonExplosion

    It depends on why you stopped being friends.

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    • Imonlyhumanxxx

      I ratted on her about something I was worried about.

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