Is it normal that i can't get over it?

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 in a half years.For a year I was working supporting him financially and mentally while he was doing an apprenticeship as a tattoo artist.Well now he is working his dream job.Okay here is the problem.I went to the tattoo shop because my boyfriend wanted me to take pictures of him tattooing his friend.I asked my boyfriend if I could get the camera out of his work locker.I opened it and found tapped on the locker wall inside a nude pic of a female customer of his posing.I got so furious because he never told me or asked me if it was okay.He said it was in exchange for a tattoo she didn't have enough money for and he needed a model for a painting he wanted to paint.I asked why he didn't tell me.He said he knew I would say no and wanted to do something for himself and felt lately I haven't been emotionally there for him since my brother was in the hospital.I asked him why he had the pic tapped up.He said so he wouldn't lose it.I asked him if anything happened between them.He said nothing happened.I asked when this happened.He said after hours when the shop was closed.Nothing seems the same anymore.I feel my woman hood has been put down.I even said I would model for him.He expects me to get over it and I can't seem to.I feel like this is a slap in the face after I helped him.I have never done anything to him like this.Never cheated or kept things from him.I don't know if I should leave him because of this.Please help.I don't want to be a fool.He got mad at me for asking her her side of the story.I think it shouldn't matter if nothing happened.She said nothing did.And she said she was sorry for what happened.She didn't know how I felt about it.

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  • cassandra1007

    just from the anwsers he gave you i think he is lying plus even if the girl said nothing happened dosent meen anything she might have just lied to get her out of trouble so i would leave him soon before you might find something else .

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  • charity

    Sweetie , you need to get urself together, ans start putting together an exit plan. U have valid feelings n hes being a moron cuz he got caught... Take care of urself!!!

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  • mommy3

    If that is the only thing he has done, I would find a way to let it go. Relationships aren't perfect, people do stupid things that hurt the ones they love. If he continues to do stupid stuff to where you don't trust him then maybe it's time to move on

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  • Layla32

    We have talked about it and it doesn't seem to get any better.He tells me he doesn't want to talk about it anymore and I need to find a way to get over it.I feel I have become this non-trusting girlfriend towards him.He says he loves me and made a huge mistake and won't do it again.But lately I am tired of hearing I love you.It doesn't take care of everything.I have been with this guy for 6 in a half years.We live with his parents.The situation seems like a mess and I don't know how to fix this.

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  • He seems like an asshole who is using you!!!!!
    He needs to wake up and see what he has in front of him. That is a huge violation of trust, and he needs to see that that is wrong, even if he honestly doesn't think it is.

    Don't let him use or abuse you, hun. If anything you guys need to have a mature talk, because it seems that you lack communication.

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