Is it normal that i can't get over him?

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I have liked this guy for 2 years. We dated for a little while, but a very short time because he never really seemed like he liked me all that much. I hadn't seen him in awhile, but i ran into him when i was hanging with some friends. We talked, and eventually we were going on double dates with some friends. I still wasn't calling him my bf, and i never truly felt that he liked me. He was sweet, caring, funny, romantic, ect. He kissed me a couple of times, but he kept lying to me and it was obvious. He would tell me he had a gf, then the next day he would say that he was kidding, stuff like that. Then he just stopped talking to me altogether. I still think about him all the time, and am not totally over him. He had broken my heart before, and i can't believe i didn't think he would do it again. is it normal that i feel that i am in love with a jerk who doesn't care about me at all?

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  • Marisol
    11 years ago

    Oh yes! It is unfortunately normal for us. I still think about the one who broke my heart. He still confuses me. I don't see him for a very long time, but when I do, I start thinking about him all over again. I hate wasting my time like this because I feel as nothing will ever happen between us.

    It is difficult to understand why people do things in such a way sometimes. You should move on although it will be so hard for you.

    However, I think you will think about him until you meet the right guy for you; the guy who will not treat you as bad as this guy did. Good luck to you, and be strong. Don't let him play with your heart. If he starts something again, play his game and teach him a lesson.

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  • NerdyChickFTW
    11 years ago

    I used to only attract assholes. I had always wanted a good guy, but for some reason, I was a douchebag magnet. So that's all I ever dated. One guy actually broke my heart, and after that, depression took hold. Even after that, after the fact I discovered how big of a jerk he was, I still thought about him constantly. Then I realized, there was a guy that had been there for me through all my bad relationships. I am proud to say, that guy and I are now engaged, and have been living together for almost a year, with no real problems. So, yes, it is normal to not be able get over a guy. But time truly heals all wounds. Don't be afraid to get back out on the market, and show that asshole that you're doing just fine without him. When he realizes he misses you, and he made a mistake, you'll already be happy with someone else. (:

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  • chicken_wings
    11 years ago

    I tend to fall for guys that are jerks believing I can change them.

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