Is it normal that i can't get attracted to anyone after my ex?

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My ex boyfriend and I had a very long on and off relationship (one year relationship, one year on and off), but I finally had to decide to move on and kick him out of my life until we can be friends. I was insanely attracted to this boy... I literally could not keep my hands off of him, and when ever we would try to be friends, we would end up becoming sexual again. I lost my virginity to him, and felt very safe with him. I would become aroused whenever I was around him. I don't remember ever being that attracted to someone before him. Now that we've broken up, and during our on and off stage, I hooked up with several people. I've never had sex with them, but we made out or did sexual acts. But I never became wet really, or felt really into it. I just thought about this boy, or wondered when it would be over, or what ever. I'm worried I won't be attracted to someone again. And it sounds silly, but that boy was literally the only person I think I stayed wet around, or got wet at all. Is this normal? What do you think it could be?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    First thing you have to ask yourself, are you over him or not? Do you still have feelings for him? That could play a huge part in why this is happening.

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  • Tobiasbeecher
    9 years ago

    Have you tried looking at your relatives. Mmmm

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  • My02cents
    9 years ago

    He took your virginity ,so you will never be able to forget him any way.

    Maybe at this time you only remember the good times,but there must be a reason why you are not together anymore.

    Time heal all wounds (old cliché,but true !)

    As long as you still think of your ex,you are not giving another boy a fair chance to win your heart.

    And who says you HAVE to have a boyfriend right away ? Be friends with all and the right one will come along.

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  • stonecutters93
    12 years ago

    Time is going to be your best healer. Eventually you'll find someone that will get, and keep you sexually aroused.

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