Is it normal that i can't get a girlfrien no matter how hard i try

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I can't get a girlfriend and it bothers me it's not like I'm ugly or anything. When ever I like a girl she either isn't interested or she dont like me back. When a girl does like me and I start talking to her and I start liking her, she doesn't like me know more and I don't know why I'm very sweet and pretty good looking but girls just don't like me not one person it seems, I haven't had a girlfriend in years exept for like little one day crap and this really upsets me
Does anyone have any idea what I do or something?

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Based on 45 votes (38 yes)
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  • KeyboardSolo
    13 years ago

    Stop being sweet. It gets you nowhere.

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    • nanimeow
      13 years ago

      Yes, this is totally true. Nice guys finish last. This doesn't mean be an ass. Do nice gestures once in a while to show you care, don't go overboard.

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  • ImMe
    12 years ago

    stop trying... when we really really want something we tend to obsess about it and that can make us come on too strong... the moment that you become happy with yourself you wont need to try to impress girls so much and they will see how awesome you are and then your only trouble will be chosing who you want to be with.

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  • Internecine
    13 years ago

    Desperation turns women off. If you look like you really need/want a girlfriend, they'll take this negatively.

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  • nattygirl13
    13 years ago

    Don't be a jackass either! that definitely won't get you anywhere.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yep everyone does it

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  • fallingleaveswithfaces123
    11 years ago

    -leans on a wall- right here.

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  • AbemamaGee
    12 years ago

    yeahh.. cheer up . one day you'll find a best mate

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  • joelsmo
    13 years ago

    Stop trying so hard, girls do not want needy guys. Get out more, but don't be so desperate girls can see that. Go to the gym, get involved in activities and maybe one day you will find a girl when you are not scaring them off.

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  • mccoyzachary21
    13 years ago

    Haha got one

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  • kimmicubs
    13 years ago

    Of course. I'm a lesbian and Ik how hard it is to get a girl. A tip I have is to stop trying. When you stop trying love just happens <3

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  • Hard_Candy
    13 years ago

    Seriously any loser seems to be able to get a girlfriend these days. I mean it doesn't matter if they have no job, live at home w/ mommy, etc. So this makes me really wonder about you. Girls these days have no standards whatsoever, just read some of the stories on this site of pathetic & desperate girls putting up w/ loser guys. So I really could not tell you exactly what you're doing wrong w/o more info about you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    The fine line between the dick and the deutsch...don't ever...EVER be a push over...better ur a little more asshole than pussy

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