Is it normal that i can't forget my ex boyfriend?

Last Summer my Boyfriend broke up with me. Days later he left my country and went for Germany to live. I haven't see him since that day. I forgot him and got on with my life. A few days ago, he came back to visit. and he contacted all my friends besides me. Off course I understand him. He doesn't want to see his ex-girlfriend. But I fell excluded. I think about him all the time, but not in a nice way. I'm sad he is back. And i don't understand why. someone can understand me?

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  • thinkingaboutit

    My exboyfriend was deported back to germany b/c i wouldnt marry him.

    ;)

    fuck em

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  • GlassDarkly31

    The most important relationship you have in life is the one you have with yourself.

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  • ccjigsaw

    I think it makes sense. In the time that you were in a relationship with him you probably became friends of a sort, so him coming back and totally ignoring you is kind of a bummer. I also see why he wouldn't want to invite you, but it's a hurtful situation for you. Especially if he invites your friends, it can feel like a bit of a betrayal on their part. Don't worry about it, we're all human and we get emotional over alot of crazy stuff, it's perfectly normal even if your are over him

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