Is it normal that i can't forget about him no matter how hard i try to

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I have been dating my ex-boyfriend for 3 and half years, and we just broke up. But I can't seem to want to forget about him no matter how hard I try to. I don't wanna leave him even though we can't betogether. We live on different parts of the planet and it cost a lot of money for us to visit each other now that we broke up and moved away from each other. But it still won't make me stop thinking about him. He is the only guy I have ever loved and it's really killing me right now that I can't do anything about the situation but to be sad and lonely everyday. There seem to have no way out. I don't wanna lose him, but I can't be with him. I can't fall for any other guys because all I can think of is him, I just can't forget about him. I'm just stuck. It feels like hell.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Don't be such a fool.
    Go out and get laid. Don't go looking to replace your ex with another guy, just go out and find a pretty guy and get laid. Have fun. Enjoy your freedom and spend some of that money you don't need to save to visit your ex.
    Life couldn't be better for you right now. This is your opportunity to just let go and have fun, without commitment or restrictions.
    If it is meant to be, then you will maybe get back w/your ex, if not, no loss as there's someone better for you down the road.
    Stop moping around and go out and have a great life!

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  • christy38
    10 years ago

    We can tell you all kinds of things until were blue in the face but until its time for you to be over him then nothing can be done. Only you can make that happen nothing that no one says or does will make your hurt go away just keep your head up and talk to the lord above. Good luck sweetie.

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  • kittykat9930
    10 years ago

    Isn't there any way you can move over there to be with him or him to move with you? If not, I wouldn't try to dwell on it and just occupy yourself with something else if not with another guy. That's what I'd do.

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